a stripper in the V.I.P room? It was a huge mistake but the stripper was all over me and she's so evil. Just ask all the dudes out there...It wasn't my fault..
Should I tell my girlfriend bout that? Would she leave me if I did?
2007-05-02 12:32:34 · 24 answers · asked by Gym Rat Gangsta 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it was a stupid mistake but at least I wore protection..
2007-05-02 12:38:53 · update #1
i feel so freaking quilty man I can't take it!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-02 12:42:53 · update #2
I always use condoms cuz I'm educated..
2007-05-02 12:47:02 · update #3
She will leave if you tell her, but she will also leave if she finds out, either way she might leave you
2007-05-02 12:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you are going to tell her you deffinately need a better excuse then "she was all over me it's not my fault" o and you may want some sort of portection b/c if it was while you were dating she will probably yell, cry, throw something and then leave your a s s behind, but remember honesty is the most important part of any relationship or in other words: you already f*cked up now its time to face the music.
2007-05-02 19:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Cena_Kix_Ass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing is: Do not deny it was your fault. It was your fault, your gf didn't make you do it, the stripper didn't either, you chose too. You need to be accountable for your actions.
2nd thing: What all relationships need now days is honesty. You need to be completely honest with your partner, for better or for worse, she needs to know the truth. If she knows the truth, she possibly may leave you, she may not, that is uncertain, however, if she loves you truly, she will forgive you for what you did.
And, if you want any healing in your relationship with your gf, stop saying it's not your fault. Cause it is. Anyways, tell your gf what happened, if she truly loves you, she will stay, but you must actually be sry of what you did (this means acknowledging it was your fault too).
2007-05-02 19:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It IS your fault. Sex is never accidental. And, unless you were raped or drugged, you cannot blame anyone else (evil or not) for what you did.
By the way, did you use a condom? Is it likely that you may have contracted some infection from her? Either way, you need to tell her. Women tend to be very forgiving. If she loves you, then you two should easily be able to move past this.
2007-05-02 19:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you completely lost your mind? You have to tell her. And yes she should leave you. What were you thinking? If you care anything about your girlfriend, you would tell her. Next time stay away from places with strippers if you can't control yourself. Oh when you tell her, don't say it wasn't my fault because, IT WAS!!!!
2007-05-02 19:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kev & Mandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on if you are planning on or are married to her.If your not planning on marriage then let it ride if you want to be with her then be truthful to her and let her know that you screwed up but that temptation got the best of you.if you don't want to marry her them it doesn't really matter right.but,if you tell her and you decide to stay with her she will hold it against you forever and that's not a good thing.people may say that the truth is the best but it really isn't in certain situations because it could end up tragically at times be smart and careful.
2007-05-02 19:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by marcelleaandbryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell your girlfriend because there should be no secerts or anything held back between you and your spouse.I really think you should slso get check to make sure you dont have anything. Shes a strpper aint no telling who see had sex with I wish you luck on telling your girl.
2007-05-02 19:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all take responsibility for your actions, it is your fault. And a stripper, hell yea tell her. Wouldn't you want to know if she was with a male stipper.
2007-05-02 19:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ash Kat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn straight its YOUR FAULT! What you accidentally ended up inside her, or what it was the alcohol that made you do it? Your pathetic!!
yes you should at least have the decency to tell her and if she is stupid enough she will take you back.
2007-05-02 19:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no shes tell u that is ok lol u better tell her and i highly doubt that the stripper could rape u cuz thats the only way that it wouldnt b ur fault
2007-05-02 19:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by baby gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her. Honesty is the best policy. If it were you would you want to know? Don't let something this small come back to bite you in the but later.
2007-05-02 19:37:56 · answer #11 · answered by beatyful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋