I'm 14 and me and my friend both liked this guy..but my friend is always mean to me anyways...well, we both liked him, and we flirted, and then, he asked my friend out, and when she told him that i like him, he called me the B word! And he is so nice, i can't believe he would do that! Plus, my friend AGREED with him..i never even bugged the guy! I hate my friend because she was so rude and wouldn't tell me wat happened..i will respect her and the guy, but do u think i should ignore my friend and the guy? I am so heartbroken!
2007-05-02 11:25:14 · 5 answers · asked by ♥ MEOW ♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, I don't think the guy is worth it especially since he called you a b word and he even doesn't know you. You friend should have stood up for you and told him off. My opinion find a new boyfriend and a friend. Just ignore the guy and tell your friend how you feel. If she doesn't acknowledge your feeling, just ignore her but be polite and go by your business.
2007-05-02 11:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Bree♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about your friend and the guy. Don't actively ignore them, because they really aren't worth the effort. If you actively ignore them you won't be able to do what you really need to do, which is just get over the boy, and forget about your friend, because you'll be too focused on trying to get them to feel bad. The guy you like sounds very immature and not as nice as you thought he was. You shouldn't waste your time caring about him. Your friend is a trickier story, because it is possible that she was just agreeing with him because she liked him. Either way she shouldn't have done it, but its something that you have to decide for yourself whether you want to forgive her or not.
no matter whst, don't try to ignore them, because it isnt' worth it, and will just make you feel worse rather than better.
2007-05-02 18:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he called you a B? Who told you that? Or did you hear it yourself? I think you should ignore them once you are sure who said what. Maybe you could just ask him if he said that. If you are sure they both called you that get on with life and find some other people to hang out with. Losers like this are not needed in your life.
2007-05-02 18:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by chris42050 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore your "friend" & that guy, acknowledging them won't do anything to help you. and don't be so sad, that guy doesn't really sound that great, especially if he called you a b****. you'll soon be able to move on, and find some GREAT guy to like.
Well Good-Luck, i wish the best for you.
2007-05-02 18:32:11 · answer #4 · answered by frances_claire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin', don't put yourself through such angst! Find a new friend and boyfriend!
2007-05-02 18:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋