what does it mean when a women does not like the sex?

Question

if a women where to have sex, and she said that the sex was bad or ur not a good lover, what does that mean


what does a man have to do to be a great lover.

be specific please.

i'm a virgin btw and the girl of my dreams to be satisfied

i meant to write i want the girl of my dreams to be satisfied

Answer 1

"if a women where to have sex, and she said that the sex was bad or ur not a good lover, what does that mean:"

It means you didn't know what you were doing, even if you did you did not do it right.
Sex isn't all about touching the right spot at the right time or rockin' it nice and slow. That counts, but if she is your dream gurl try making a connection during sex and not trying to...lead to orgasm.

1. Follow her body signs.
2. cherish every move when undressing her with a kiss
3. Be gentle and do rush it.
4. Foreplay virgin boy, foreplay to let body know what will bw going down.
5. Trying touching and kissing the unsensitive part before you move to the sensitive parts.

Follow carefully virgin boy:

Just be flexible, gentle and passionate. Make sure you cherish every moment by being slow, and gentle. To really hit the jackpot, be sure to read the body signs which should tell you to either contnue doing whatever you are doing or change course. Better start by making enough eye contact, then kissing will follow suit, then you move gently to the neck, but try unsensitive parts like the hands then the breast and the middle of the breast, under the breast, around the breast, then the nipple. Make sure you don't bite it or she will slap you, cover your teeth with you lips then moisture it a little bit while you suck not like a baby but nice and slow. She will be more relaxed, then you move to the stomach, then to the danger zone kissing your way down, while you gently kiss her hips and thigh while you remove the underwear, when you all set you gently put the wood into her and rock it nice and slow for about 35 minutes then, the marathon is all yours. Make sure you make a connection with her, don't be an *** and only think of the sex if you love her. Hold her hands, she will let you know if she is loving it or not.. You will find that one out, peace. Remember, use a proper condom for safety and lubricant to catalyst the foreplay. Be yourself!

Answer 2

Virgins are just that. You are not born a great lover and the biggest thing is to go slow. Take your time in everything you do and build up to the ultimate. If you play your cards right you'll have her anticipation built up several times along the way, and you will give her the happy ending. You on the other hand won't take much to get off but if you're young you should be ready to go again several times over.

Answer 3

Listen, if a girl comes out and tells you you suck, without giving a little slack cause you are a virgin then forget her. Also if you want to please a woman, ask her to show you what she likes. There is no better teacher then the chick herself. Plus too many men think they know how to please a woman, and not all women are the same. A Great lover is a great listener, be open to her wishes, pay attention to her body language, and her moans. If she likes something you are doing you will know. Be gentle, if she wants it rougher she will tell you. Foreplay. Kiss her, caress her, draw her a bath, with candles around the tub. Wash her body, or hair. Dry her off and brush her hair. Remember good lovin starts in the morning. Try different positions. No one wants to be bored in bed. Read books written by women not by men! Good Luck

Answer 4

Bad sex simply means the women is not satisfied, hence did not achieve the one thing that shows her satisfaction, an Orgasm.

Ideally, if you wanna be a great lover, you need to know her points, the things she likes during sex, where she likes to be touched during sex and the postions amongst just a few things. They say the ultimate guide to a sexually satisfying her, is getting inside her head..so you got to find out what she needs and deliver. Once you achieve that, you;re gold to her

Answer 5

It means that you're bad in bed.

It takes skill and practice, I guess. Sex really isn't as complicated as some people make it seem. Some men, too often, try too hard and burn out from frusteration. You really just need to learn from her. Find out what drives her wild and work on it. Try new things and observe her reactions. If she likes it, keep doing it. If she doesn't, find something else. If you can't get her to react w/ missionary, change the position. If that doesn't work, try oral. Use your imagination. There are many things you can do to get her going, you just need to find them. It's kind of like a trial and error process. Since all girls are different, they all have different things that give them an orgasm. Try new things and if they don't work, try something else.

Answer 6

well be a little force-full with her, tell her to bend over, or stand up and bend over.. we like it to be switched up, so everytime you feel your gonna explode stop and switch, unless it's happening like every minute.. ahh see if she wants to do a role-play with you, and if she doesn't have anything in mind you think of one, and try to leave your self as the older one, we like to be the one's being taken advantage of.. when you have her laying by you and your kissing, put your hand threw her hair and then squeeze it a little, kinda pulling on it, but dont' yank back and forth, get a nice grip and leave it at that, and let go after about 20 seconds... when your having sex and it's slipperie enough, start hitting it really hard, and other then that just see what she wants, do NOT be afraid to talk to her, a sexual experience is so much better when you can be open and honest about what you want.. believe me i learned the hard way.. but by time i was 19 i realized i'm never gonna get what i want the way i want if i dont' start saying something, and so i started to open up and my sexual life has been freakin' awsome.....lol but anywho good luck and best wish! make sure you use protection, or make sure you pull out and spray it on her back or belly! yummy! =)

Answer 7

It takes practice and experience to be a great lover. Often it helps to experiment with someone more experienced and listen to what they tell you. More often that not the wisdom which comes with time is the best way to make a woman happy.

Answer 8

It means you have an insensitive lover. If she feels your doing something wrong or something she doesn't enjoy she should talk to you about it rather than just say that the sex is bad.

Answer 9

Wait until you are married and marry a virgin. Then the girl of your dreams will always be satisfied because she will know you saved yourself for her.

Answer 10

i think sex isnt everything but if your a bad lover it makes things A LOT harder!!! you have to get over the fact that the 2 of you cant share that together and that your man or woman cant satisfy you sexually, its a hard thing to get over believe me!