He said he loves me, but hes more outof the home than at home. I have a good job so he gives me nothing. I'm paying for school and taking care of the home. He can be a nice person at times. Do you thin k hes cheating? Does he love me?
2007-05-02 08:36:13 · 18 answers · asked by ebony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is probably cheating on you. If you suspect that somebody is cheating on you, then usually nine times out of ten they are.
2007-05-02 08:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by zerocool8122 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably so. Sad to say. some people dont value or apprecitate what they have. If you have to worry about him ask questions why hes always late if he is doing all this and not even calling you or you have seen a drastic change in his behavior let him know that hes not the person you fell in love with.
Any lady deserves to be treated with respect so dont take anything less. just dont let him take advantage of you i.e bills
Id find someone that wants a relationship with you not a boarding house to call home. good luck
2007-05-02 08:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by GA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are a wonderful young women to take in anothers child and raise them rent free. The only thing he's contributing to you is the not so frequent "I love you"s that he use to keep this nice arrangement going.
Be as smart as I know you are and either kick the child out, or let him know that he owes back rent and this months rents due. Don't let him make a mockery of you any more sister! Stand up for yourself.
2007-05-02 08:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that, or he's busy at work, or has lots of things on his mind. Sometimes certain people (I'm not just saying guys but...) have a hard time opening up when things are bothering them. The only way to know what's up is to talk to him and see if something's wrong, just remind him you love him but you're feeling concerned about the relationship and about him. Good luck.
2007-05-02 08:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by lilbtrfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? There is no permanent bond between the two of you and so he can do pretty much whatever he wants to. Besides you are the one paying for everything and there is no way that a man can respect himself if he has a woman who is taking care of him. You have metaphorically castrated him, so the only place he will ever find his manhood is somewhere else.
You've got the power. Use it! Or you will not only lose the power, but him as well.
2007-05-02 08:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh lordie, do no longer difficulty -- if he's doing something, you will locate out. yet maximum probable he's being truthful and basically likes the on my own time. in case you difficulty you will chase him to the place of work greater regularly!! instead, act aloof, do no longer ask approximately it anymore, bypass out and do your individual element for that hour and maybe think of of a few thing fairly relaxing you're able to do jointly. you're able to desire to have some separate relaxing issues or you will fall ill of the clinginess fairly immediately. I in no way examine my husband's emails or difficulty approximately pictures he's sharing with pals -- super deal, suited? yet as quickly as I DID examine his e mail or get jealous of his pals and save arguing approximately it with him, I promise you we does not nonetheless be jointly. enable him have his inner maximum time -- yet confirm you're taking yours, too. bypass to the wellbeing club or to dinner with some girlfriends. savour your on my own time!!
2017-01-09 08:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you and your boyfriend need to seriously discuss why he no longer wants to spend any time with you. He could very well not be cheating and loves you, but is no longer in love with you.
2007-05-02 08:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by Rell Smooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't know if he's cheating or if he loves you. Those are things you need to discuss with him...if nothing happens and you are still dissatisfied with the relationship, then move on.
2007-05-02 08:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Of course he is going to tell you he loves you. He doesn't want to lose his happy home. He is getting everything provided for him, and isn't having to do a thing for it.
2007-05-02 08:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes more than words to prove that you love somebody.I'm not saying he's cheating and I'm not saying he's not.But in my opinion something's up.If I were you I'd check it out.
2007-05-02 08:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Chatterbox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋