umm okay i feel soo bad about his whole thing with him b/ci know he deserves someone better b/c i do not like him like that but god he is just soo sweet i just wish i could look past his age and his looks but anyway i feel really bad b/c i have been leading him on for the past few days plzz someone help me b/c i don't want to hurt him but he does deserve somone who actually wants to be with him well thanx for every one who is helping me with this situation adois
2007-05-02 08:06:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't love him just tell him.
If he is a true friend he will understand.
I answered your question so answer mine PLEASE.
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2007-05-04 08:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by hwhjr1987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but rejecting a "really sweet guy" just because of his looks is pretty shallow. Unless he looks like the Elephant Man, or weighs 500 pounds, at least give it a try. As for his age, what's that all about? Is he too old, too young? As long as he's "legal" don't worry about. Sorry, but you're one of the reasons guy don't believe what women say when then talk about what they're looking for in a man. Women always talk about wanting "just a nice guy who will treat me good." Well guess what? YOU GOT ONE and you want to kick him to the curb. who would you rather date, a good-looking ******?
2007-05-02 08:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling him that you don't really want to ruin the friendship might still give him hope that he could be with you, so tell him that you like him just as a friend. if he truly is sweet and understanding, then he might need some time to figure things out and accept what you said then he'll come back to be friends with you. that awkward phase will persist if none of you try to rekindle that friendship. so good luck! just be straightforward :)
2007-05-02 08:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to make sure of what you want to do with this guy, because you are playing with someones heart. Love can be a good or a bad thing, which way do you want it to go for you, that is the question. Fallow your heart, and you can't go wrong.
2007-05-02 08:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeahh.. to me.. i think i can only work with a relationship only if i'm physically attracted to him.. i mean errryone finds it ferrked up if looks matter.. but some where along the long long line there is always a "looks matter" running through your head... but... there is nothing really to feel bad about... maybe the whole thing where he's not attractive to you but sooner or later he'll find someone that is attracted to him... **no worries.. he'll find someone that will be attracted to him.. it's just a matter of time...
2007-05-02 08:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by >>shayy<< ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what you should do cuz i never got mixed up with someone i wasn't passionate for but whatever you do, don't say:
we can still be friends.
even if you can still be friends, don't say it out loud in those words: "we can still be friends"
we would rather you say that we are ugly and you hate us than be told that we can still be friends. you'll make a man feel not manly. so don't say it, trust me.
2007-05-02 08:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by killa' fo' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just back off stop calling him, when he calls you be nice but be short with your answers, sound busy- after a while of this he will get the hint, and no words are necessary
2007-05-02 08:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by shannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that. but dont say it like that.. say something like "your really sweet but i think you deserve better and im not really ready for anything right now"
2007-05-02 08:10:00 · answer #8 · answered by Katie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't want to ruin the friendship
2007-05-02 08:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by Taryn K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have sex and see what happend he will like it and if he is bad then owell the it will be easier to say sry this is not gona work
2007-05-02 08:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by glr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋