We've been going out for 3 months. we recently started having sex, but i really dont have enough confidence to show my breasts to him. I find them really weird, and different to everyone elses.
I like the breast itself, but its the nipple which i have a thing about. I have what some people call a 'burger nipple'.
Which means that they are big, and dont press flat against my breasts at all. They stick out making my breasts a triangle shape. But, when erect, look completely normal.
I dont mind showing them when erect, because i find them quite attractive when they are. But i cant keep them erect for long.
What do i do?
I'm scared he'll tell people if they're really weird. Or think differently of me.
Would he be turned off by them? and does anyone else have a problem like this?
What do i do?
2007-05-02 08:06:37 · 23 answers · asked by catherine_5543 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tend to think your boyfriend will just be happy to see boob. Men generally aren't too picky in that area.
2007-05-02 08:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic you are only 14! they can grow for upto another 5 years. Breasts never actually stop growing. They are changing all the way through our lives. If you are referring to the "growth spurt" during puberty where they seem to appear from nowhere, that usually finishes up somewhere around the ages of 16 to 19 years old. You can't actually do anything to increase them everyones genetic, if you feel brave ask your mum or older sister if you have one about when there breasts stopped and started growing it will give you a very rough idea :)
2016-05-18 23:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a non problem and you will get over it eventually. If you don't trust him not to talk about your body why in the world are you with him????
I have gone through a similar experience with a couple of different ladies. One loved to have sex, but she insisted on wearing a t-shirt. She was ashamed of her small ones. One loved to be touched and kissed everywhere else but not on the breasts, for the same reason.
Sooner or later you will have to accept yourself as you are and hopefully your BF will do the same.
Belive me, the last think I would be concerend about is the shape of your nipples. Variety is the spice of life and I never met one I didn't like.
2007-05-02 08:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O girl... are you serious...?
This guy isn't going care what your breast look like during sex ( which i am sure you are over stressing this because ALL girls are self consciuos about something).. just that he's able to feel and play with them... if you're really self conscious do it in the dark but COME ON!!! guys love titties and THEY know that every girl's pair looks different you kow? you shouldn't be embarrassed since yo yourself find them attractive. no one has naturally round and perky breasts anyway... so you're not alone in thinking they might look different.
Good luck :)
2007-05-02 08:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try putting some preparation H on your nipples.....that will keep them erect for hours.
As for what you call a 'burger nipple'.....that is not the right name for it. lol
You will probably find that as you age, your breasts will finish developing.
From what you have said regards your breasts, you sound too young to be having sex.
Please be careful.
2007-05-02 08:13:15 · answer #5 · answered by None of your business 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry kiddo he is so thrilled that he is getting some he probably won't even notice and all women's breasts look different am sure he is blissfully happy just to be seeing a real live breast don't fret wait till you have kids and they slide into your armpits now that is something to worry about lol Be sure to use protection every single time have fun
2007-05-02 08:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to think the same thing about my boobs. But my boyfriend caught sight of them one day, and he completely adores them. They are his fav part of my body (except my face). My experience is, Ive never met a man who had a problem with some tities. As long as they arent hanging flat all the way down to your ankles, covered in hair or herpes bumps, or filled with breast milk, Im sure he'll love them. And h*ll, if you show them to him, maybe he will be able to keep them erect for you. lol. try ice, works for me. PEACE.
2007-05-02 08:15:29 · answer #7 · answered by hersheekysses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, take a deep breath. I'm scared to show parts of my body to other people too. But if you're having sex with him, you should be able to trust him enough, not to talk badly about your body or you.
Don't make a big thing out of it. I'm sure if he loves you, he's going to love every part of you, just as much as he's been doing. Trust him, during the act, begin to take off your bra, if he seems uncomfortable stop him, and say if you can't accept this as part of my body, I can't give you the other parts of me that you want.
As your boyfriend he should respect everything about you, even what you see as flaws.
2007-05-02 08:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um hmm yeah i was like that to but he told me that they were beautiful and now i think differently about my breast but hmm what can i say about this let's see um just do it and get it over and yes i know i make it sound so easy but yeah i know it's not and if he truly like you and you 2 have had sex then it should be fine hey this is my myspace.com/s_infralie well bye for now
2007-05-02 08:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All breast are beautiful to men! All shapes sizes colors!
Be proud and don't worry he LOVES them just the way they are!
2007-05-02 08:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just have sex in the dark and tell him to use his imagination. I am not being rude but this way you both win. Because he is going to be happy just to get to feel your boobs because that is what really counts.
2007-05-02 08:14:15 · answer #11 · answered by kinreep 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋