I am through with my girl friend..we ve been in relationship for the last 3 years...i am completely in love with her and so was she but because of her parents our relationship would not last..as in, in future..so she has left me..i am completely broken..i really dont know what to do..i just cant let go..everything i do is connected with her in some way or the other..i really miss her..i just cant forget her for i really love her with all my heart..i cant concentrate on my work..i tried my best to settle the situation but it would not help..i dont even have friends..i am all alone...i really dont have anyone..i need someone to take care of me but...please help me....
2007-05-02 07:41:18 · 17 answers · asked by garv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
remember: if you are not happy for the things you want and dont have, be happy for the things you DONT want and dont have...
time will heal all... be patient, and try to do fun things for YOU
2007-05-02 07:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by michael 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to her at all about it? You might be able to work out something.
N I know this might not help, but if there really is no more hope left for you two, you might have to try and carry on even though you hurt so much. *hug*
I know its hard coming out of a long term relationship, but sadly theres no quick fix to stop the pain, you have to work through it. and you probably always will love her, but.. as my ex said to me.. dont cry because its over, smile because it happened..
n dont worry, I know that doesnt help at all right now, but when you begin to feel better about it, youl see that thats what you have to do to get by.
I wish I could help more. But im here if you ever need to talk
x
2007-05-02 08:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are your balls? Seriously, where? Find them now. Grab them to make sure they're still where you left them.
Did that? Good. Now you know what I'm about to tell you is true: YOU'RE A MAN! Is your life that empty that you vested 100% of it into this girl? You have nothing else that you can possibly do besides sit in the dark and mope? Get out and do something even if it reminds you a little bit of her. At least if you're moping while DOING something, you're getting out there and trying to get past it.
But hey, who am I to tell you what to do? Sit and wallow for the rest of your existance if that's what you want, but it sounds pretty boring to me. If some ***** had stabbed me in the back, she wouldn't be worth my time to mourn over.
2007-05-02 07:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like a rough spot.. Did you break up on goodterms? If you really have to try to let go, you should consider doing something social like taking classes in something you're interested in or playing sports or something, just anything to help you to meet people that share common interests. I would recommend seeing a counselor too, they really can help guide you through difficult periods in your life.. it worked for me a few years back.. good luck I hope you feel better
2007-05-02 07:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by IAN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Quit feeling sorry for yourself. Are you a quadriplegic, did your girlfriend have to take care of you because you are handicapped? Did you notice that there were other girls besides your girlfriend? There are plenty of other girls. As far as needing someone to take care of you that is BS! Take care of yourself. You want someone to help you? Look in the mirror. Your help is right there if you will use it.
2007-05-02 08:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try one more time 2 really sweep her off her feet, pull out all the stops 2 impress her like u were dating her for the very first time. if this doesn't turn her around this time, then she's just letting her parents choose 4 her and will never follow her oun mind and heart. people who always let their parents choose 4 them r never really happy.
2007-05-02 07:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds, its just that some "hurts" take a little longer to heal, be positive and try to make new friends and keep busy, pick up a sport you love, meet new people...falling for a new person will work...good luck to you
2007-05-02 07:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really must keep trying to get the love of your life, because if you stop you really won't get to be with her. If she see the effort that you put into trying to get back with her, I feel that she will love you for it, and no matter what anybody say, she'll be yours.
2007-05-02 07:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jerome E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's ended it you've got to let it go in time you will get over it slowly! try and go to a bar or maybe join a new hobbbie club that way you can meet new people! also if she wants to come back she will if she doesn't let it go!
2007-05-02 07:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by x..sarah..x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her all that and if she still wouldnt try to make things work,then it's better 4 u 2 move on fast,it'll be very hard but u'll be able 2 get through.
2007-05-02 07:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋