Weve been faithful for a year now. Everything is so amazing. Im scared to get too attached and afraid of getting hurt so i want to ruin it. But I would like to make it through this. How?
2007-05-02 07:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by stghand 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, that sucks. I know that feeling.
Hope this helps.....
The greatest mistake we make is living in constant fear that we will make one.
2007-05-02 07:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you truely trust each other and you get fears from the past.. then you got to tell yourself to relax! They are just made up assumptions that you created that dont really exist at the present time! I guess thats how I kind make it out to be. If the time you share together is worth everything you guys have been through, then I would just go with what you feel... and remind him he has your full trust until he loses it. That would just tell you that you deserve someone that is more faithful to you and should probably reconsider your relationship if wasnt faithful. So just keep your head high and have a positive view and have the courage to deal with any problem that might happen ;-)
2007-05-02 07:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Royce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm....that means you still don't trust each other, and maybe you shouldn't be with him. If you both been faithful for a year that's great. But do either of you get the idea of doing it again. They way you are going you will ruin the relationship, because you have no trust, and since you have already been hurt by this same person, you probably won't get any trust. Consuling is a great suggestion not only for you but him..You do need to get yourself help first, than he will have to go next to work on the relationship.
2007-05-02 07:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both cheated and now he's a wonderful man. Give into the feeling if you think it will last fall in love. why not everyone deserves love but be careful. They key componts in a relationship are trust and communication. You've both broken that trust area and both knows how it feels to be cheated on. Theres no use for going tit for tat remain faithful. Being cheated on is a pain that lasts and i dont know of anyone who enjoys it. If he's good to you stay it might of been that one time you cheated that turned him good
2007-05-02 07:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once trust is broken it takes along time to trust and some people can never do it. I can only tell you that time heals everything and if he continues and you continue going the way you are then I dont see the problem.
2007-05-02 07:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal to feel this way especially after being hurt. but to make it through this, you two have to maintain the lines of communication open. let him know exactly what you are asking. dont hold back on anything or skirt around any issues or else it will continue to build inside you
2007-05-02 08:16:01 · answer #6 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your both going to have to trust one another and that means taking a risk.This is what you have to do when you take a 'cheater" back.Otherwise itll never work out.
2007-05-02 07:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once one is a cheaer is always a cheater.
any relationship, in order to survive, has to be based on solid foundation of trust...just like house...weak foundation...will crack soon enough.
sorry to bust your bubble and good luck
2007-05-02 07:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no doubt, as i know this 100%, you WILL both cheat again!
2007-05-02 07:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋