I mentioned over the phone a day or two ago that I am completely in love with him. He didnt have much to say about it...did I scare him? I just wanted him to know...I didnt mean anything by it!
2007-05-02 05:40:06 · 21 answers · asked by akskdm3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is 25, I am 23...dating for about 6 months now...he does say he loves me but I am looking for something above and beyond that!!!
2007-05-02 05:52:31 · update #1
I didnt mean anything by it like the next step of getting engaged or something like that.
2007-05-02 08:50:10 · update #2
Show him through actions (romantic things, google "romantic ideas"). Make him see you have no eyes for anyone else, but don't overstress it until he reciprocates. Let him know and let it settle into his mind, then remind him every now and again with actions.
2007-05-02 05:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have scared him away. How could you not mean anything by it? That's a pretty big deal!
Ask him how he feels about you. Ask him to be honest, but only if you can handle the truth. He may need more time. But the cat's already outta the bag for you.
The whole "love" thing is complicated and different for every relationship. I know people who have said it after 2 weeks and people who haven't said it even after 1 year.
Give him some time. If he doesn't come around, if it deteriorates the realtionship then he's not worth it. The man you love should love you back for everything special and beautiful about YOU!
Good luck. ;-)
2007-05-02 05:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by c_o_l_e_82 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to look someone in the eye and mention that four letter word, for some guys its like facing a stampede, and others are just happy you said it first. You can't say you didn't mean anything when you tell them you're in love with them, That word carries alot with it. Even though he may not say it back, pay attention to his actions. Guys don't like talking we are more apt to express ourselves through action. So to answer your question the best way to tell him would be, to be patient waiting for his response, don't push and don't scare him, just give him a little time to respond. I can almost guarantee he'll tell you somehow
2007-05-02 05:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by stepin_ez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your in love with him, don't hide it. Express your feelings, and if he does not feel the same way, give it a little time, but don't get into the relationship too much, if you know he does not love you the same because you are going to get hurt in the long run. Good luck with everything
2007-05-02 05:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't have much to say when you told him you were in love with him, I think the feelings are not mutual. If he had been in love, he would have said smth like "I feel the same", "me too", "I love you, too". Silence is a way to say "I like you, but not love you" so I think you scared him a bit. I'd be more reserved if I were you.
2007-05-02 05:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by BabyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already told him. Now you just have to prove that you meant it by actions -- not necessarily sexual things -- but in all your actions.
If you scared him, then he'll either get over it or move on. There is nothing you can do about that, but if he does move on, just be grateful that you did waste more of your time on him.
2007-05-02 05:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ya Ya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to show him than just telling him. The best way to let somebody know you love them is by being there for them no matter what.
2007-05-02 05:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by aj_squaredaway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let time work its course unless hes leaving for a distant country or moving away just let the relationship get closer and closer then you wont have to know how to break it to him he'll know.
2007-05-02 05:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by T dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea. But if you really love him then why not go for it! I think it depends on what he is comfortable with in going about the conversation. You should know him this well if he is your best friend.
2007-05-02 05:43:24 · answer #9 · answered by Konabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look just come right out and tell him how you feel some of ya'll girls just don't need to be in relationships with people if you not going to let that person know how you really feel and that go for men too they do the samething but you just have to break your self out of that
2007-05-02 05:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by DC all day moniemonie1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋