Do you agree or no? What´s your opinion about?
2007-05-02 05:20:56 · 36 answers · asked by Pillar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having sex in the first meeting is not good. And though a man tells you you are the best he ever had or make you feel the two of you are going to get closer, you wont. When a man gets ready to settle down and get married, he will never look to the one that slept with him the first day, because in the back of his mind, he is thinking that you sleep with everyone as soon as you meet him. So no sex. You should allow the two of you to be drawn into each other emotionally and spiritually. That way, we trouble comes between you, you will bounce back because you love each other and have no doubts.
2007-05-02 05:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by notablewoman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They make a fun date. And if they are good, a great lay. Other than that, I don't think much about it at all. It certainly is not the way to catch a guy for a permanent relationship...it needn't impede such a relationship, but it certainly will not 'catch' him, that is for sure, Men are far more sophisticated than you give them credit for. And, with some men, it will cross the woman off the list of any kind of relationship. In general, men still like the chase, the conquering where 'no man has gone before." Yes, total bullcrap, but real anyway. good luck
2007-05-02 05:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I knew this girl back in high school. We met again after I got through a bad and long relationship. We ended up having sex the first night. We've been together for almost a year and I don't think I could've got anyone better. She's wonderful.
2007-05-02 05:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Brandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think about a man that do sex in the first meeting?
What about that one? Why is there a difference between a man having sex on the first meeting and the woman having sex on the first meeting?
It is always about the woman it seems and it also always seems to be a double standard...it is alright for a man, but not a woman.
That is about as close to my opinion as I can get.
be cool...
2007-05-02 05:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have done it...but ended up dating him for a while, so I guess that worked out.
It's terrible, but I actually felt bad about myself after that. I thought I was some kind of s--t.
Currently I don't practice that. If I feel the need to have sex, I just call an ex over.
2007-05-02 05:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last time I had sex on the first meeting with a guy, we never parted. 6 years later, he will tell anyone who asks, having a wife comfortable with her sexuality, and ability to let go and have fun, has prooved to be most beneficial for the both of us.
2007-05-02 05:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"do" sex? Your kidding right?
I believe that you make your own choices and if you regret them later then you will hopefully learn from them and not repeat them. Do I believe its wrong to have a one night stand or have sex on the first date? I would have to say no, because I have at one point in my day done so. Am I any less of a person because of it? No, I just made a poor choice.
2007-05-02 05:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Adults should do what works for them...remember women who have sex on the first date, are no worse than the guys they are having it (on the first date) with...
Neither party has any right or reason to judge the other on that issue. ☺
2007-05-02 05:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have done that and stayed with her for a long time. It was one of those things that worked out well for both of us and I just didn't like her for sex. If she came on like a sex starved nut job I would not do it.
2007-05-02 05:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To each its own, but the man is not going to respect you too much. Men like a chase. And woman should really let men work before they give up their goodies. Once you give it up too soon, you have lost the excitement.
2007-05-02 05:26:31 · answer #10 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋