We were married 10 yrs ago against my parents' wishes as we were from different castes. Mine is a traditional brahmin family from rural bkground. My wife never undrstands our tradtional background, hence neither she have cordial relationship with my parents nor with my sis $ brothers. But I was always confident that I will keep my family united and one day the understanding-trust will be there amongst us. But last year very ugly incedent took place and things took very bad shape. My mother was seriously ill and gone thru 3 major ops (piles, cancer, bypass heart). My mother lives in delhi with my younger brother who is still unmarried. Last year, my 2nd younger brother came to our place (in diff city) and stayed there for 15 days. He once made sexual advances. She scolded him and asked him to behave. After some days when I was away to delhi, he again tried and my wife struggled for 2 hrs to save herself. My sisters and other brothers (2 younger) are with him.
2007-05-02 03:51:26 · 6 answers · asked by piggu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Now problem is that my wife says, whosoever keeps relation with the person, we should discontinue with him or her. Ok Now my younger brother (other than the culprit) is getting married on 5 may. My wife is on her stand that if he is there, we should not go. I find it reasonable and I talked to my sisters and brothers but the brother who is getting married is saying that its not possible in any case. So we withdrew. Can Anyone suggest whats the best way to resolve the issue so that rest of the family remain intact.
2007-05-02 03:59:22 · update #1
I think you atta let your wife know that u are sorry and never trust your brother even though it was a year ago it happend okkkkkkkkk
2007-05-02 03:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmine G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt have left him in my home with my family if he tried before. That can be a very dangerous and scary thing that she had to go through alone. Ur her husband any dangerous that might hurt ur family ur suppose to protect ur family . Why did he go with u ? Thats his mother too. But we cant protect everybody and we need help. Pray on it because things will get better. Good luck and sorry to hear about ur mother I wish u and ur family well.But hold her tight and let her know nothing like this wont happen now its ur job to make her feel comfortable again. Now is the time where she needs u the most.
2007-05-02 11:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by victori757 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Bitter Truth about Hinduism.
1. Hinduism explicitly creates irrational hierarchy among Indians which is against Article 14
2. Hindu parents covertly teach their children to coerce other children as per the Caste hierarchies.
This has been happening since 5000 years in India.
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2007-05-03 13:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what your culture does in situations like this but, if i were you, i'd confront your brother. punch his lights out if you have to. messing with someone elses woman is always wrong. brother or not. i wouldn't allow him in the house anymore to start with. if your family can't deal with that, too bad. your wife comes first. always.
2007-05-02 11:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been married for ten years, there must be something there. if any other man would have tried this you would be furious !!! i know they are your family, but wrong is wrong. i am with your wife on this, and you should be too !
2007-05-02 10:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
help ur wife, dont leave her when ur brother is around and dont talk to ur brother, he shouldnt have tried anything
2007-05-02 10:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋