wanting to apologise to the guy i love. did a terrible thing to him and now he wont talk to me. how do i apologise and wat should i say?? should i text or call?? i hardly ever see him at the moment. i tried to say i was sorry a while ago but he didnt accept it?? any advice is helpful thanks. x
2007-05-02 03:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by kate * 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry. You have tried to make contact but he is not wanting to hear it. Makes me wonder what you did. It's over. Cry a river.
2007-05-02 03:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Adapted_For_The_Screen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK a REAL apology would include:
doing it IN PERSON
not just saying you are sorry but why you did what you did, what you were thinking, how you feel about it, and what you learned - and being really honest about it - in other words no bullsh*t excuses - real feelings
anything else just falls short of the mark
text or call to tell him that you want to apologize to him but do it in person. If he refuses then you just have to accept that you may have lost him
the people that suggested asking him to accept an apology during sex or crying a river - this is just total manipulation and won't help YOU to grow as a person - being honest with him and yourself will help you to grow
2007-05-02 04:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by chewtheredpill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the best time of his life to show him how much he means to you. Do the food, a little booze and dress to impress. Make sure the invite is done in a way that he will know exactly what is on offer - YOU! When it some to the physical bit, show him why you are the best, lose the inhibtions and make his eyes pop. You know what I mean!
2007-05-02 03:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, what did you do!? Secondly, do not call or text. Do something amazing sweet like make him something and take it to him, it'll show you take time from your life to give it to him. Say you are sorry, answer any questions he has, and bring on the waterworks! ;-) Hope this helps!!
2007-05-02 03:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ash! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you did and how he reacted....BUT I'm the type that if I apologize and I'm sincere about it and they don't accept it, I move on. I refuse to apologize perfously to someone who won't accept it...you know?
2007-05-02 03:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face to face. That's how you apoligise. Go out of your way if you have to. If that isn't possible then call him.
2007-05-02 03:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just blow him and ask if he accepts right time he is at climax.... this normally works and trust me you can get a lot from a guy if you ask during sex.
2007-05-02 03:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres only so much u can do if he aint interested walk away
he might come running once he knows u aint chasing him no more
2007-05-02 03:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
neither---tell him face to face
face to face is the best when saying your sorry
2007-05-02 03:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call and say you are sorry and won't do it again. DON'T text - waaayy too impersonal
2007-05-02 03:48:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋