Are guys really put off by fat or chubby girls and why? We all have the same features as one another.
2007-05-02 03:45:46 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Food & Drink ➔ Cooking & Recipes
fat gals are far better than skinny... I love fattys... they have all big... ;-)
2007-05-02 04:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by dSolver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been both thin and a li'l overweight in my life. I have to constantly watch what I eat and try to be active. In my experience younger guys and American guys both have aversions to bigger women. I've never been over 150lbs but I'm only 5'3". Mature men aren't afraid of woman with a little extra curvature and men from Latin countries aren't either. I have married twice in my life and I married a man from Central America the first time and I'm married to a South American now. When I gain an extra 5 or 10 lbs, feel uncomfortable and my pants start getting tight my husband thinks I look good and that it's hot! That doesn't stop me from losing the weight though because I know what weight I feel comfortable at. I feel comfortable with myself at a size 8.
2007-05-02 11:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by J mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, theres a difference between "chubby" and "fat / obese". Obese is a turn off mostly. If a girl is chubby, or even slightly fat it is ok. Alot of it would have to do with overall looks. A girl would not want to date a fat guy for example, but slightly chubby isnt so bad.
2007-05-02 10:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Metamorphosis1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Compatibility in looks, in thoughts, in attitudes, in education, in work ...
Fat females do get loved.
Fat females do get married.
The reasons are the same as any other. It can be true love. It can be otherwise.
The ones who are married will tell you that it is better not to get married. So you can be in love. But you do not have to be married.
Or if you are not loved, is that such a big problem ? Can you not love yourself ? Why must you depend on the next person to decide on who you are ?
2007-05-02 10:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the fat girls do get loved by cirtian guys well I would know because I am a fat girl and I think we need to find someone who will accept us as we are and nothing more
2007-05-02 10:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by Megan H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To re-phrase, you are asking if guys think the worth of a thin girl is more than the worth of girl who may tip the scale a bit higher....Who cares what this hypothetical guy thinks. You are worth as much as YOU think you are. People, in general respond to confidence, kindness and true sense of one's self. You are worth more than whatever the scale says. A guy who can't see that isn't worth YOU'RE time!
2007-05-02 20:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by bikergal34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about guys?
I'd worry more about girls. They're more back stabbing, talk behind your back, judgmental than any guy you'd ever meet and these are girls that claim to be your friends.
However, with that said, most guys want girls that have it together. Great personality, takes care of themselves and just fun to be with, we definitely don't want drama, but you do narrow the field if you're too fat.
2007-05-02 10:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by Dave C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are plenty of guys out there who actually prefer 'fat' or 'chubby' girls to rail thin girls or even us normal size girls.
2007-05-02 10:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sunidaze 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are put off by fat girls...........after all there is so much more of them to love and enjoy.
2007-05-02 10:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by veg_rose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, guys would rather have someone that looks like a hollywood dream girl. The society we live in always puts the "models" on top, and the "real woman" waaaaaaay at the bottom. I tend to look at the personality, istead of the "person"
2007-05-02 10:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
What's with all this 'beautiful inside' stuff !
Girls are beautiful outside when they wanna be - and size is not what makes it.
Whole nations go for big.
It's only the pinhead culture that discriminates - and misses out :-)
2007-05-02 10:50:47 · answer #11 · answered by gowfergold 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋