visit's are frequent one lives in boston tha otha lives in chicago
2007-05-02 03:24:45 · 15 answers · asked by Lady Di 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you keep seeing each other than it will last but if you don't see each other for weeks than it might probably not last long in the relationship.
2007-05-02 03:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Joy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship's longevity is dependent upon your commitment.
I was living in Europe when I met my wife online, we were both into writing poetry and that's how we got to know each other. We met IRL back and forth, I moved to the States some years later and we're celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary in 8 days.
I'm not going to tell you that it wasn't hard being away from her physically for 8 months in a row (between visits) but it was SO worth it.
It all depends on the individuals. You could just as well ask if dating the girl next door can last. It's not the distance, it's the people.
2007-05-02 10:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Mika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they can survive the distance. I live in Pa, my fiance' lives in SC. That's 800 miles of long highway. I have flown to see him three times since November of 2006. We plan on seeing each other this July. The distance is a killer, but when you are committed, that's what you do! The relationship can last, but it takes trust and work.
2007-05-02 10:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they do depending on how much trust you have in each other. Frequent visits and phone calls come in handy. And if one plans to move to the other's domain, then you will differently work out. Just remember, trust is a major issue on this.
2007-05-02 10:28:21 · answer #4 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the distance will become a major factor between you guys...
not being able to see each other will take a toll...
if you are strong enough to with stand this...you should be ok...if you guys truly love each other....one of you eventually will have to make a choice to move closer....
you also have to take into consideration that the other person has a life where they are...like you do...
its not goin to be easy
be prepared to not see each other as much as you would if you had someone closer...
also be prepared that maybe they may not be sitting by the phone waiting for you to call...
take it slow...and dont put all your eggs in one basket
2007-05-02 10:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much effort the both of you will put into the relationship. it can work if both of you stay committed and can handle not seeing each other very often. my friend, who lives in japan has a bf in america. i think they're doing pretty good.
2007-05-02 10:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it did for me I am now married to the man with whom I had a long distance relationship.
2007-05-02 10:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Merrill L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have no ideal but best of luck finding out an answer to your current question
2007-05-02 10:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience NO but if the two of you are committed and trust each other then there is no harm in trying.
2007-05-02 10:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by spankybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just a medium distance --- at some point you will need to get closer as the relationship will need to grow and as long as you both want it to work it will ---- best wishes
2007-05-02 10:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋