I need to hear that there are people who believe in love, and that love and sex should go together. Sometimes I get the feeling the world is full of sick perverts. Am I the only one who believe that you make love to someone you actually love??
2007-05-02 03:19:23 · 12 answers · asked by Amelie 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Farien3, do I know you from somewhere? A previous life, maybe...
2007-05-02 05:07:47 · update #1
That is the Biblical way that is why it promotes sex after marriage where you have already established a trusting and loving relationship with your partner and then consecrate before God and man.
2007-05-02 03:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Damian 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No, you're not the only one that believes in making love to someone that you actually love. I am deeply in love with my husband, and although we are very active, it is only with each other. I could not engage in such activity with a person I did not love and trust with my very life. Sex can be a beautiful, wonderful and even spiritual experience when shared with a loving partner. There are lots of people out there who feel the same way.
I do not make judgements against sexually open people, as long as they don't hurt anyone else and their partner(s?) are willing, I don't care what they do in their own bedroom. Although most of the "sick perverts" you refer to are most likely trolling for shocked responses by taking advantage of the anonymity that the internet provides. Online, you never really know.
2007-05-02 03:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Avie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I don't believe you have to love the person I will tell you this. The difference for me is sex and making love aren't the same.
Since my divorce I found a man who is my equal. He treats me like I count and he loves me. I treat him the same way and I love him. Even though it took us both a while to actually come out and say I love you, we knew. With him I don't feel that making love should be this way or that. It just is. To truly become one with someone is an amazing feeling. Honestly I never knew that that level existed but it does. For me at least.
2007-05-02 03:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Janet L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not.
The MTV culture that keeps telling us that free sex will make you happy and that there is nothing wrong with it is turning us as a society into selfish, lust seeking shallow beings and we are spreading viruses, diseases, unwanted pregnancy and misery at a record pace.
There is NOTHING wrong with sex, God created it. And like everything else, he gave us rules, and the rules are not there to make God feel powerful, they are there to keep us safe and make us truly happy.
Wait for the right person, believe it or not, there are still a lot of good faithful people out there.
Peace and God Bless!
2007-05-02 03:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality, by means of which man and woman give themselves to one another through the acts which are proper and exclusive to spouses, is not something simply biological, but concerns the innermost being of the human person as such. It is realized in a truly human way only if it is an integral part of the love by which a man and woman commit themselves totally to one another until death."1
2007-05-02 03:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by Gods child 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Amelie, Sexual intercourse between a man and woman In Love, Creating a child is the highest creative act of a carnal being. At the point of Climax, they experience union with each other and God in Unconditional Love(in spirit) a trancendent experience. This is the "what God hath joined together, let no man put asunder". "God dwells within you as you". Awake to your unity with God in unconditional love within your heart. As the colors of the rainbow are contained within sunlight, so to are we all contained within the light of Gods unconditional love. LOVE whistle britches
2007-05-02 03:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by Weldon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it definitely helps, but I don't think it's exclusive to a "love" situation. Sometimes you just really need to get your freak on, y'know? People have some fantasies and things that would really be pretty embarassing to share with a loved one. What if they didn't go for it? You'd have to go on with that knowledge that you were a bit too freaky for the other person..it would create tension.
On the other hand, what if you could hook up with someone once or twice just to get those freaky urges out. If you freak them out, so what? Who cares? You don't love them--it doesn't matter to you.
2007-05-02 03:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by P.I. Joe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my parents will be celebrating their 50th anniversary next year. they were happily married and had 8 kids over a 20 year period. they came from a very poor country and came to america and they own their own property and worked hard for it. my dad gets mad and offended when he see's young girls 1/2 naked with their underwear line showing. so he is not a pervert at all.
2007-05-02 03:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by Miki 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hate to sound critical, Amelie, but your question is just a tad self-indulgent.
'Should' love and sex go together? 'Should' according to who? Often they do, and often they don't. That's sex.
Sick perverts? How do YOU define 'perversion'? Please remember that word varies from person to person, as all subjective terms usually do.
Are you the only person that believes as you do? Oh please. Stop being so melodramatic. If you're having a bad day or week or month, sorry. But please stop playing the love martyr. It's unbecoming.
2007-05-02 03:27:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I believe that sex is an expression of love and a giving of your spirit to a person that give of theirs.
2007-05-02 04:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋