Okay a few months ago I had sex wit a boy and I wanted to teach him a lesson by telling him I was pregnant even though I was not. Because he was practically a man-ho and i thought he would learn from this but he didn`t. Now he is telling people that we had oral sex and i let him nut on my face which is not true. Then last week we went on a weekend fieldtrip and I sleep in a room of a different boy and now he is going around telling people we did stuff which is also untrue, we did not even have sex. How should I fix this.
2007-05-02 02:51:32 · 13 answers · asked by FAMU GIRL 09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did not know he was like that until after i sleep with him. And while I was in the hotel with the other boy nothing happened, I just fell asleep in there.
2007-05-02 03:05:53 · update #1
You can't fix it. And to keep going on about it and trying to get people to see your side just fuels the fire. People only see what they want to see anymore and nothing you say or do will fix that. The best advice is to ignore those involved, drop the subject and let it go. Real friends and future love endeavors will love you as you are and that crap won't matter anyways......ignoring the jerks and just letting it go is the best fix you will find. Good Luck.
2007-05-02 02:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. First off, you shouldn't KNOWINGLY have sex with a man-whore, secondly you shouldn't play the "pregnant game" bc you could be physically assaulted by the 'wrong one', you said you were trying to 'teach him a lesson', it seems to me that he's teaching you one, to not sleep with man-whores, and definitely don't play games with them bc they will use every ounce of their being to ruin your rep and make your life miserable just for kicks. You can't fix this, bc you have no control over what someone else says or does, but I would suggest that you stop putting yourself in "compromising situations".
2007-05-02 03:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by Im Just Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T! Don't attempt to feed into the madness and rumors. The more you feed into it, the more they will gossip. Guys are going to be guys (even if it means being an asshole). If you see him look him dead in the eye and don't say a word. Silence is the best way to deal with an idiot. He'll wonder why he's not getting to you. Let him see you enjoying life even if you have to pretend.
2007-05-02 03:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.jlittle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have given it up so easily the first time. From now on, sleep in your own room or with a girlfriend.
2007-05-02 02:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late to "fix it". Choose better boys to sleep with. Be more selective since you have chosen "man hos" and they have no scruples.
2007-05-02 02:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you sleep with a man-hoe to begin with? Admit it, you like the drama.
2007-05-02 02:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont
once you mess with a guy, they will RUIN you...
you are now labeled as a whore, and for good reason
keep OUT of guys rooms, and stop sleeping with people
you WILL get diseases, and worse
2007-05-02 02:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to fix this is to confront them in front of there friends men hate to be confronted with the truth in front of their friends
2007-05-02 02:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by duby_doo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that you where trying to tell everyone that he got you pregnet to teach him a lession but it backed fired. tell people the truth..!!
2007-05-02 02:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by brandon W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give up the people you are with. be careful to choose your surroundings in future!
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2007-05-02 03:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by do dream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋