If you died and God said you were a good Christian and lets you into Heaven but the person you loved the most (assuming other than God) was sentenced to Hell, would you still love that person? Who you automatically try to sever ties with that person? To Christians: do you think you could fall in love with someone who isn't Christian and never wants to be Christian but is the most wonderful person you'll meet in your lifetime?
2007-05-01 21:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by Jaqq 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
im waiting to see some of the answers
2007-05-01 21:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. Going to hell is a personal choice.
2. If you go to heaven, there will be no families, personal relations, there will only be a community of saints...you will probably have no longing for someone who is not there, for in Heaven, your being will be complete in the presence of God.
3. You can definitely fall in love with someone who isn't Christian, as much as non-christians may fall for you - Christianity isn't about converting others towards your belief, but letting them have a glimpse where your love is coming from.
I hope this helps.
2007-05-02 04:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by barrabas 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think we are capable of understanding the whole
"our love ones in hell" idea. It's going to take being in the presence of God to except such things and justify them.
I personally couldn't Marry a non Christian. I've already meet the most wonderful person and she's definitely a Christian. Anyway one of the things I'm most attracted to is a woman on fire for God and who has the glory of God shining off her face...nothing more beautiful.
2007-05-02 04:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by † H20andspirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my husband and I got married 19 years ago, it did trouble me. I hated the thought of not spending eternity with him. He was convinced, through things that happened to him earlier in his life, that there was no God, there was no point to anything. I could only sit back and hope through actions and love that he would begin to see differently. Fortunately, through going to church with me, watching how those around us lived and loved, a Christian non-profit we both volunteered with (his reasons at the beginning were purely selfish, but at least he was surrounded by people who taught him about God through their actions!), 2 wonderful pastors, my husband found God and Jesus, and was baptized. That day at church it was like a huge burden was lifted off of my shoulders. I knew then that I would get to spend eternity with this wonderful man! It took 15 years for him to take that step, but he did it and now can't understand why he didn't see it all sooner!
2007-05-02 07:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by usafbrat64 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer your first question... cause with the mind I have right now I would feel terribly guilty for not bringing the one I love the most to God.
But yes, I do think I can fall in love with someone like that, though when it comes I hope I have God's wisdom in me.
2007-05-02 05:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by controlfreak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well - assuming there is a heaven
there isnt any sadness.
so if you went to heaven and the person you love doesnt you wouldnt feel pain.
i think that ive heard that in heaven you dont remember the people you know from this life.
but im not positive...but then again...on this subject. who is?
2007-05-02 04:32:26 · answer #6 · answered by [[carly]] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that person doesn't want to be there, there's not really much I can do about it. I also think that then we'll see that God is completely just at that time, so that no one accuse Him of not letting in people who "deserved" to be there.
2007-05-02 04:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by Deof Movestofca 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"For those who believe in Heaven and Hell? "
i do believe in hell, but you are only refering to christians, and i'm not one.
2007-05-02 04:31:10 · answer #8 · answered by lazisilva 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe in heaven and hell, they are lies used to manipulate children and idiots.
2007-05-02 04:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ginger Ninja 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it wouldnt matter, youd be too busy being in awe of god to care. would you miss your friends if you got to fly to space, i wouldnt.
2007-05-02 04:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by J G 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋