ahhmmm,,,i really love him
2007-05-01 20:52:16 · 18 answers · asked by blinkaye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he loves you as much as you love him, there is a huge possiblity that the two of you will get back together again.
I'm speaking from experience.
If you have friends, male and female, they will comfort you and encourage your effort to get back together.
All relationships have their moments of something being said or done that rips the relationship apart.
If you truley love this person, you probably know him very well and have a pretty good idea as to what you could say to bring the two of you back together again.
The last thing you should do is become overly emotional in front of him. Aproach him with maturity and understanding. Be very relaxed and show him that you just want him to be happy.
If it was something you did that caused him to leave, you probably know what it might be.
Go with your gut feeling and appoligize. Tell him how sorry you are. Tell him you don't want to throw away everything you had with each other due to a simple lack of communication. We make mistakes. It's human nature.
If HE was the one that did something to devide the two of you, approach the subject with a soft voice and a willingness to listen to his reason for wanting to move on.
Sometimes a guy will want to break off a relationship over something small, such as wanting to date other girls.
This is common but they don't forget how much they loved you and most of the time they will come back to you, as long as you make it a pleasant experience for them, when they talk to you.
Guys don't like feeling that they are under pressure by being chased by a girl.
Your best course of action would to be a good listener and talk nabout his feelings without making it look like you're trying to win him back.
Be a best friend to him even though he might date someone else. Give him advice even. This usually brings them back to you because they feel so close to you.
I speak from first hand experience. It's easier to get your loved one back than you think.
2007-05-01 21:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's normal, obviously your in a state of mind of needing attention or otherwise the feelings inside just won't let go. Give him a call, or visit him at work, then take it slow, dont show your need or want to much, go drink coffee, spark conversastion, and do what you would normally do with your best friend. By now If he's smiling, and is enjoying your presence after a couple of days or weeks, show small signs of your heart, like kissing him on the cheek when he drops you off. Eye contact builds trust, but dont rush, otherwise you'll possibly end it sooner than you want.. Time is your advisary, or your friend. good luck
2007-05-01 21:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is never wasted. Loving someone does not mean you must be with them. You can simply love him and move on with your life.
You can also see if it mutual, and is the kind of love draws you into the relationship again. Then maybe you two have a future. Depends on why he became your ex in the first place.
2007-05-01 20:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by siddoly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what the situation was that caused the break-up. Maybe there are reasons why you can't or shouldn't get back together, even though you love him. I think you should talk to a good friend you can trust who does know what is going on. Good luck.
2007-05-01 20:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hard but u got to tell him face to face how you feel , you gotta break it down to him ....and sometimes that dont always work ...I should know I was going through the same thing ...and I still am ...things might not end up the way you want them but you can at least try
best of luck "hunny"
2007-05-01 20:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck i dunno keep living and move on? I mean there was a time before you met him that you were on your own and you surivived all you need to do is find that part of you the independent part and help her to be strong..i really love my ex too but it's 4 yrs now she's forgotten me already I haven't stopped loving her the pain never goes away but you gotta accept the truth of it all and just move on..
2007-05-01 21:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta go tell him plain and simple don't miss out on the opportunity. people deserve second chances so go get him.
Good Luck
2007-05-01 21:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here
but im with someone else for 2 years and he wanted me back
and i wanted him bnut i had to keep thinking how my current relationship was and why wud i wreck it
:)
2007-05-01 20:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by shel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
declare youre love again if he regects you dont feel anything bad for this is the reason why yhe is youre EX but if he agrees then go for it
2007-05-01 20:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by K.Wilson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm, tell him? mayb he still feel the same way for u? mayb he whld wanna get back to u? :) well, just tell him wad u feel. and dont wait too long b4 hes gone. :)
take care and god bless.
2007-05-01 20:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by mansha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋