Why is it so hard...?

Question

To find a good man in my area?

To elaborate. My area is Puyallup, WA. I have only rejected one man in my life, and the reason was because he already had a girlfriend. I'm not going to be the other woman. I'm 5'7" with an average build. Naturally blonde, but currently redheaded. I have dark blue eyes. A pretty face. I have been told I am attractive by many people. I've been looking for a guy since the beginning of this year when I was finally over my last almost-relationship. I just want someone I can spend time with and maybe have a future with.

Answer 1

I don't know where your area is, sweetie, but I do know that a good man is VERY hard to find. Many of them are only out to score, or want a mommy who will wash their underwear and cook their supper. And quite a few want someone who will pay their bills and buy them beer. I understand how it is, even though I've been married for almost 30 years. I live in a rural area, so it was extremely hard to find a decent man. Many of the guys around here are boozers, druggies and losers, with no ambition to do any more than what they're doing, which is nothing but being a waste of space. To find a good man is no different than for a man to find a good woman. It takes time and patience, looking in all the right places. Sometimes, it's when you're not looking that you find him. That's how it worked for me. Don't settle for just any guy, no matter what your situation. My nephew is still looking for a nice gal to marry, and he's 33. I've been looking for a good woman for him for several years now. He says the gals are all looking for a guy with a deep wallet and a party every weekend, so he's facing the same situation. He just wants a gal who wants to settle down and raise a family. So, take heart. I believe that there's someone out there for you right now. Just keep your eyes open for new possibilities. <*)))><

Answer 2

You need to expose yourself in the right areas. Participate in Church even if you are not religious. Look at the events in the paper, including all the lectures and meetings you can get into. Smile, talk positive; don't be afraid to initiate a conversation with anyone who looks like he might have potential.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with being picky..
Would you rather spend your time with a jerk who drives you insane or spend time alone to do your own thing with your friends (or by yourself)...
Never settle...
As the stupid saying goes: Love always happens when you least expect it too.

Answer 4

Its hard to find a good anybody now-a-days. Man or woman.

Someone will come eventually! The only people who dont find love are those who ignore it.

Answer 5

Because you are so choosy. You just take for granted every guys around you. History would show that girls like you will end up as old maid. Ohh, I'm so blunt.

Answer 6

maybe you looking to hard for the right man let live a little and relax and he will come along when you least expect it

Answer 7

Define good?
You are looking for some things that do not exist.
See what you want, quantify it and than go look for it.

Answer 8

what area are you from?
I am from Hope Arkansas.

And it is hard for me to find good women. So don't think that you are alone cause you are not alone.

Answer 9

mayby the good men in your areas are the ones you reject on sight without realising it.

Answer 10

Hmmm...Perhaps it's that unsightly third nipple.

Seriously, How do you expect anyone to give you any useful ideas when we have no idea where "my area" is?