Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with my fiance's dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I just don't know what to do. We're getting married next month. I know I have to tell her. I also know it's really gonna **** things up. I just don't know how to tell her, or what to do.
Please help me!!!
2007-05-01 19:23:14 · 16 answers · asked by Big Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK. If you are sure you are not the least bit gay, keep your mouth shut.
I'm assuming her Dad will never talk about this either. Older guys don't talk about this kind of stuff unless maybe he is gay.
She doesn't need or want to know this. Leave her in blissful ignorance. Do your best to put it behind you to. And stop the drinking. If this kind of drinking happens often, get some counseling.
2007-05-01 19:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume this is a joke. Ha Ha...sort of an old one at that. If on the small chance it is not, I strongly advise saying nothing, EVER! It didn't happen, won't happen, forget about it. why in the world would you want to dump this on anyone else? Keep your mouth shut tight, and in the future, I will tell you that you make a lousy candidate as a drinker...perhaps you should consider not ever drinking again. Good luck
2007-05-01 19:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your screwed( no pun intended) are you sure you had sex with him? Did you ask him? What you need to do is tell your fiance with her dad present. Keep it open keep it honest, give her the opportunity to make the the decision to stay with you or go. Be honest and be honest soon you are running out of time. She will be hurt/mad but if she really loves you and truly knows who you are she will forgive you. What ever you do ..... do not go into this marriage without disclosing your indiscretion. HELL HAS NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED!!!
2007-05-01 19:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its safe to say that you have to tell her. The guilt would get to you and it wouldnt be a "marriage".
If in fact it is meant to work then she will forgive you, however be prepaired for the fact that she may not.
Honestly is the best policy. Put yourself in her position, would you want to know? At least that way she can marry you with love and honesty, not spite.
Good Luck.
2007-05-01 19:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by JENAYA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! OK THATS GONNA BE REAllY WiERD FOR All THREE OF YOU! FiRST OF All i THiNK YOU MiGHT OUGHT TO GiVE UP DRiNKiNG! WEll THE RiGHT THiNG TO DO iS TO PROBlY TEll HER BUT HONESTlY iF i WAS HER i WOUlDNT WANT TO KNOW! SO HOPEFUllY YOU'll GET BETTER ANSWERS THAN MiNE CAUSE i'M NOT SURE WHAT YOU SHOUlD DO iN THAT SiTUATiON! GOOD lUCK!
2007-05-01 19:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by .::in [love]::. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better not tell her & pray your fiance's dad does the same. Was this the same question hours ago?
2007-05-01 19:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first you got to tell her...
Sit her down say baby we need to talk i need to tell you something, i love you so much you know that and i know you love me and that is why i aam so sorry for this and remember i love you and i dont want to lose you and tell her...
2007-05-01 19:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The important part is are you sure you're going to tell her? Sorry, but she will not understand that if you tell her. If you are sure you're going to tell her, the only thing you can do is try it and see how she reacts......
2007-05-01 19:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by מימי 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, u life is gunna screw up ayy...
well i nkow u need to tell her, but just be really "sorry" and you wont do it ever again. apoligies ur fiance's father...buy him somethink sensible....and yeah....tell him ur sorry ( also mention u had no idea what happened) .
good luck!!
hope that helped!
2007-05-01 19:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by holz405 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are a poostabber these things dont just happen and with her dad of all people
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2007-05-01 19:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋