2007-05-01 19:13:17 · 11 answers · asked by Thomas D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the answer to your question is that you have to offer her something greater than what she gets out of sleeping around. If the fear of losing you is not enough to make her stop than she doesn't like you that much, or she doesn't are at all. Maybe she doesn't even fear losing you. Girls cheat - it's an ugly truth. But your girl isn't cheating. She is not your girl at all, you've got no control over her - she won't allow you enough authority in her life to influence her behavior. What your girl is doing is spreading her wings and enjoying her sexual power. And she's just getting started. She likes to f**k and she likes attention from different guys. And girls like yours are out there. Lots of them. These women fill a niche, there's plenty of places in society for these kinds of girls. They can be friends with benefits. They are the life of the party. They are fun. On an on... But they don't make good girlfriends. Don't try to change her. She's having fun exploring her sexual power and you won't slow her down. She'll be broadcasting herself and dudes who live in clubs, and frat boys, and gym rats and guys with yachts and convetibles will pick up on it. And they'll all get a piece. What you need to do is shift gears - change your perspective. You have a certified nympho on your hands, and in your lap. You should be trying to bang her as much as possible in bathrooms, cars, crazy places. Try to get her to to hook up with your friends, do 3somes, digitize her, maybe get her to set you up with her friends. Don't be mad at her, just accept her for who and what she is, take advantage of your good deal. She'll probably be a girl you can keep going back to for a "refill" for years. But investing in her emotionally is a real bad idea. At some point she'll stop - hopefully she won't have kids, won't have incurable STDs, and won't be too used up for someone to seriously consider her. But right now - she's not there with you. And at this point, I'd say you could never be in a more serious relationship with her. What's tougher on a guy than an brutally unfaithful woman? Nothing I know of... Man I'm sorry - but this is truth speaking. Everyone is telling you the same thing.
2007-05-01 19:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Bruce Leroy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u desperate or what?
Wake up quit is not permanent and it can start again, just look at all the smokers.
Teach her the same lesson for extreme measures and than dump her for ultimate lesson.
Sorry for the mean advice.
2007-05-01 19:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Freakout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You killed any attraction she had for you and the best thing to do is to end the relationship. If you don't, you continue to accept her unfaithfulness and her arrogance as being okay. Stop it and be a man and set your ground for what is right and wrong.
2007-05-01 19:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by espinozawolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new girlfriend.
2007-05-01 19:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by Duo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat on her see how she likes it.
2007-05-01 19:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by ti541 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has done it more than 3 times she isnt going to stop once yeah understand two you know kinda three STOP....
You got to let her know she is hurting you and you do not know if you can keep doing this...
2007-05-01 19:17:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take yourself out of the equation.. that way it's no longer cheating! voila! problem solved!
2007-05-01 19:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. A girl like that is not worth your time.
2007-05-01 19:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. If she really loves and respect you she will try to get you back, not that you should forgive her.
2007-05-01 19:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say it like its a common occurence. shes not worth it. dump her.
2007-05-01 19:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by somedude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋