I'm not even sure about it. She's hugged me and punched me slammed me against lockers. She's also sung songs with me when I have my ipod. I'm real stuck. I want to ask her out but just can't seem to do it.
2007-05-01 16:22:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too nervous because you are worried too much about what just ONE person thinks of you (and it is a person that you don't really know).
You get over it by telling yourself that if she doesn't like you, it is no big deal, because someone else will.
Aren't you a good person? Don't you make a good, loyal friend? If she doesn't like you, didn't she just miss out on the once in a lifetime chance to get to know someone as great as you? Tell yourself that YOU are the prize, because SHE is the one who misses out if she decides that she doesn't want to get to know YOU.
If she dumps you, then she did you a favor by saving you some time. Now you are free to flirt with someone else -- someone who will like you.
Besides, it sounds like she really likes you anyway, so what are you so worried about?
2007-05-01 16:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a good movie thats coming out. Ask her just like this "what do u think of Blah Blah" alow for a reply..pray she knows what the heck your talking about and LISTEN then say "wanna go see it on Friday?". Depending on your comfort level you may or may not want to do the whole group thing.
Oh the nervous bit...yah lol just practice what you want to say. It truely helps. And you being nervous is good and time will help.
2007-05-01 23:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by hmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no way to get over being nervous just suck it up and ask her out if you are truely afraid go out as a friend group thing and then try and feel the situation out better and if you think its good try to pull her aside so you can talk to her in private even if its only five min and then when you take her home say you had a great time and ask her out on a private date
2007-05-01 23:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by snowboarder 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, one never gets over nervousness, just supressesit. second, imagine her as a baby or a small child or maybe as ugly. this should help ease the nervousness. thirdly dont ask her out, ask her to hang out. not even to eat or to the movies, that is so boring. hell, going to the mall and shoplifting is more fun than going on a proper date.
2007-05-01 23:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make it a big deal in your head, off the cuff, ask her to get a
bonus if you know a particular food she likes.
Or if you guys are into music tell her you have an extra ticket to a concert, and does she want to go.
just don't go into it (mentally) like it's a huge deal. that way if she says no it's no big deal.
2007-05-01 23:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by knujefp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to take the edge off some how. In the end just doing it will be better than worrying about it.
2007-05-01 23:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big secret...
You NEVER get over that nervousness. You have to suck it up and ask her!
The only difference between a hero and a coward is that the hero knows how to overcome his/her fear.
2007-05-01 23:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is like taking a band aid off.....DO IT FAST!!!!!!!!! The pain is lessened and it is over in a flash. Dont put off today what you can do tomorrow!!!!!!
2007-05-01 23:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by karena k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have to swallow your shyness and act brave, girls love it when you can step up to the plate and ask them out, if you really like her than you will get over and ask her out
2007-05-01 23:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by babykitkat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask.... she clearly likes you
2007-05-01 23:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by BumbleToe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋