im 16, 125 lbs...came from 160lbs....and i have stretch marks on my "love handles", inner thighs, and back of my knees.....i have a boyfriend and he doesn't care, but if me and him ever broke up, would anyone ever love me.....what about when im pregnant!!! :-( :-( ...no seriously, im scared...will i be loved!? or am i going to die alone.......?
2007-05-01 16:21:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
thank u so much girls...really.
2007-05-01 16:30:07 · update #1
yes its ok
2007-05-01 22:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIGHT....1st of all....we all get stretch marks...and the sad thing is they never go away...they fade but they are always there. AND when you meet a new partner everyone is scared that they won't find them attractive when they get naked! But generally.....a n aked body is beautiful no matter what....and if someone doesn't think your is for whatever reason...they are not worth it! As for stretch marks when pregnant.......it happens to the best of us....but think of what you gt at the end of it and the person you have a baby with will love you no matter what!!!
2007-05-02 04:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont worry. I agree with almost every post on here!! A guy who loves you wont care about trivial things like that.. thats not what REAL love is about.
If you are self concious about them try using mederma on the stretch marks to helpt hem fade. Its a great cream lots of people use you can get at a local pharmacy.
If you get pregnant you can rub cocoa butter on your stomach as it grows , some women say it helps
:)
2007-05-02 00:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman has stretch marks whether they are faded or standing out. You can buy over the counter lotions to help fade to the stretch marks so they are less apparent. If a boy can not love you because you have strecth marks then he's not worth your time anyways.
2007-05-01 23:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Momma2katyandarianna 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You will be fine. Those marks will in all likelihood diminish over time. Try rubbing cocoa butter, or a lotion specifically made for reducing stretch marks, on them. Besides, they add character. If some boy decided he did not like you because of them, he is shallow and not worth your time.
2007-05-01 23:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey stop worrying i completly understand i use to be 215lbs and now 130lbs i still have stretch marks and my husband loves me be your self stop worrying what others think of you i'm sure your beautiful nobody is perfect except the man above us,you will be loved you are you...
2007-05-01 23:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL MY HUSBAND FEEL IN LOVE WITH ME WHEN I WAS 275 LBS. HE DIDN'T EVEN SEE MY BODY HE SAW ME, THE REAL ME. EVEN THOUGH YOUR YOUNG YET THE MAIN THING IS TO LOVE YOURSELF INSIDE OUT.THAT IS HOW YOU TRULY LEARN WHO YOU ARE. PEOPLE WHO ARE TIED UP IN HOW OTHERS LOOK OFTEN ARE LACKING IN THEIR OWN SELF ESTEEM.IF SOME ONE TREATS YOU THAT WAY RUN FAST GIRL.STAND ON YOUR OWN AND USERS WILL NOT BOTHER YOU. CONFIDENCE IN YOUR TRUE SELF IS KEY. AND MARKS OR NOT YOU GO GIRL,IT IS HARD AS A TEEN TO GET HEALTHIER AND YOU DID IT,BE PROUD.
2007-05-01 23:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, don't worry. Do you want to marry a man because he likes how your skin looks........Or do you want a man that loves you for what is inside. Would you not date a guy who had strechmarks......If you are ever in doubt put yourself in the opposite position. That usually helps.
2007-05-01 23:44:35 · answer #8 · answered by Just Bein Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, BREATHE. In through the nose, out through the mouth.
A good philosophy that will get you through life without trouble is that there is someone out there who's meant for you, and what was meant to happen will happen. Your soulmate won't care what you look like.
2007-05-01 23:27:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey cheer up. there's nothing to worry about, i know for sure that ur boyfriend has your back! :) and if ever you have your confusions and stuff...just pray. ^_^
2007-05-01 23:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by babyangel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are loved and you will be loved. strech marks do not change that.
2007-05-01 23:37:16 · answer #11 · answered by Idon'tknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋