My dad always drinks and ive been in and out of the home several times ive went through foster care ands all...he used to abuse me but ive been in my home for the time in three years and now im turning 17 i left wen i was 14 turning 15.....im a model now and i just got signed by an agency im very excited about that but...yet he gets drunk and he satrt to yell at me and my older cousin about things that he doesnt complaing about on regular basis he drinks when he gets home from work up until the time he goes to sleep to go to work at night.....and im sacred of i cant talk to him about anything i hate living at home so i always leave with my boyfriend.....whats wron with him he feels happy when a woman gets around but i cant ever make him that happy and im his daughter HELP!!!!!
2007-05-01 16:20:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he needs help. You need to check him into a rehab center and if he wont' let you do that you need to leave. he is an alcholic through and through...there is nothing you personally can do to help him, he needs professional help
2007-05-01 16:24:13 · answer #1 · answered by gimli5878 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your father is a alcoholic, you should get out of the house, alcoholics have every reason in the world on why they need a drink, it's not the drink they need it's the drunk they want. get out of that house and in the meantime try to find him some help, with all his yelling that is a form of abuse and his words will damage you for a long time.My father was just like yours, drunk everyday and running his mouth when he was drunk, he drank himself to death and he loved his alcohol and his children were great tax deductions.
2007-05-01 16:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably too sober. Try buying him a couple 12 packs, but none of that Miller lite bullshit. Also, an easy-release belt helps ALOT.
2007-05-01 16:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by The Pudding Adventurer 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you can manage to support yourself, get out of the house.
Find out if there is a local Al-anon or Al-ateen in your area. They will have the information to help you cope with your situation.
2007-05-01 16:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by CountryLady 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. it is NOT your job to make him happy.......
2. he is an alcholic
3. he is an adult with more problems than drinking
4. you can do nothing to change him unless HE wants to change..
5. he is the father you are the child
6. go on with your life, love him but do NOT give him the power over your life.......
God bless
2007-05-01 16:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my dad is an alcoholic also- you need to tell him he needs to get help or you are not going to be in his life anymore- you can't make him happy until he is sober-you can't have him drag you down anymore-
2007-05-01 16:42:04 · answer #6 · answered by caden S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are a "model" you shouldnt be there. if you leave dont come back
hes a drunk
2007-05-01 16:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he devorsed if so then he is missing your mom and needs a women to guide him thro this hard time
2007-05-01 16:34:26 · answer #8 · answered by gameking22 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your dad has big problems. problems that you CAN NOT FIX!
concentrate on your future and go from there.
2007-05-01 16:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋