2007-05-01 15:49:49 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
obviously you have a hot boyfriend, and she just cant get her paws off him. I can say one thing. You B.F isnt really that great, and if your boyfrind flirts back then he isnt really that great either, he should love only you, and not be be a bit attracted to your B.F. But if your boyfriend gives no reaction to your best friend, then either slap her (lol) or talk it out ( lol whatever) or just say STOP! i mean come on. its your hot boyfriend not hers right? :P
take care
~sakaki
2007-05-01 15:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by ＤＩＳＣＯ 先輩 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you mentioned this to your boyfriend? Girlfriends have a "desire" to want what their friends have or better. Without telling your b.f. to stop it, make it clear to your boyfriend that you think she's flirting with him and that he should not fall for it. Not only does this keep the b.f. but it gives a little 'rope' of trust to your boyfriend without getting all over his case.
2007-05-01 15:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sean B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm evil so I'd probably do something evil to show that he is MY boyfriend. Like kissing him in front of the girl and showing the girl why my boy chose ME. Next time you catch her flirting with your boy, tell her (In a joking matter to not be so suspicious) "Damn, you're all up on my boy gurl." OR "Man, you keep flirting with my boy girl, is there something I should know about?"
But really, if she keeps flirting with your boy, thats really messed up and remember, she'd deserve it, cuz she's supposedly your b.f.
Remember, girls are not to be trusted. They're never REALLY your friend. You don't know whats going through her mind right now, and you never know, just cuz he's your boy doesnt mean anything. If he's cute he's cute. She probably likes him, PLUS hte fact that now that he's your boyfriend he hangs out with you alot and since of course your b.f. is gonna hang out with you alot,she gets to spend more time with him and know him more and ya never know, she could like him too.
Remember, you can never fully trust anyone.
if the girl keeps flirting with him knowing he's your boy and you have feelings for him, then she's not really your girl. You should talk to her about it and tell her she should'nt be flirting with your boyfriend so much cuz you don't like it.
And if this guy really likes you, he won't fall for such things so easily, and if he does, then he wasn't really worth it. Remember, you should'nt settle.
2007-05-01 16:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by tweetygurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does your boyfriend respond to the flirting? If it appears he's lapping it up and there's a good chance your best friend and your boyfriend will hook up behind your back, then you have a trust issue with your boyfriend that will eventually lead to you breaking up with him. In that case, you're better off dumping the guy now and cutting your losses.
As far as your so-called best friend is concerned, you need to evaluate how much of a friend this person really is with you.
2007-05-01 15:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by greenpyro69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she really your best friend is she is flirting with your boyfriend? You need to confront her and tell her that her behavior makes you uncomfortable and that she needs to stop. I would also make a point to not hang around her so much when your boyfriend and you are together. Just keep an eye out for her just to be sure....
2007-05-01 15:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know you're not that comfortable with her behavior. Let him know you trust him and know that he would never do anything with your best friend. That gets the guilt going, insuring nothing happens.
For the most part, don't get jealous. If the guy is stupid enough to try something, dump him and you are better off. If your b.f. tries something, dump her and don't have anything to do with them if they are so willing to betray your trust.
2007-05-01 15:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by guitargirl371 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ask your bF if he stiLL wants you to be his girl
if this is not the first time that your best friend do some flirting from any of your boyfriend
maybe you should stop being with that guRL
if you say bestfriend, she must support you and not just getting anything special from you
maybe your best friend is not realy true to you
she might be jelous about you and you must beware of what she might do
if you think your boyfriend realy loves you, you must show him all of the things he likes about you
you know what... it is possible if someday that bestfriend of yours can get your boyfriend and start their life without your pressence
if that will happen, maybe you just need to be ready so it won't hurt a Lot
atLeast,.. you know even by yourself that you did your best to be as near as being a perfect gF to him
2007-05-01 16:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Chuky_Tiff s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. Make it very clear that you do not find that acceptable. But be careful not to create an awkward situation because if you say something, she might have trouble knowing what will be acceptable in the future.
2007-05-01 15:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by מימי 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend flirt back? If he does then you have bigger problems then your best friend coming on to your man. I would tell her to back off, if she was really your best friend she would not be doing you wrong. good luck girl.
2007-05-01 15:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by krazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking that "b.f." in your above question means "best friend", and not "boy friend".
If I am correct, then your "best friend" is not your "best friend".
If I am not correct, then your "boy friend" is gay.
2007-05-01 15:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lord L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋