im happy when i see her..i am attracted to her, but its not lusty..i just like her, but i dont want to be in a relationship with her coz shes married. i feel guilty liking her..however, i like her but i dont lust her..usually, i go all the way on my feelings for other girls before...ever felt like this...ive always associated attraction to girls with something more..this is just weird. do i reallly really like like her?????? im confused. sorry.
2007-05-01 15:44:41 · 12 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, you like her
2007-05-01 15:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its obvious you like her and have true feelings for her but if shes happily married I would leave it alone. But if shes not in the happiest relationship with her hubby then I would tell her how you feel about her and then let her make the decision from there. Also you have to make the decision if it is worth risking your friendship with her sometimes things like this will change it for better or sometimes worst.
2007-05-01 15:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by amerlinsintina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you keep your distance because she's married. Maybe you really like something about her that you want in another girl. Since you don't lust after her, I am assuming maybe this is the case...
2007-05-01 15:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by tortasinqueso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yay, I am glad to hear that, Gig! That sounds really cool. I just learned the very beginning of Stairway to Heaven and a lot of the Rain Song, and I am very happy with myself. I am so glad that I picked up guitar again... even if I am teaching myself. I fell in love with the guitar in one day. I was in third grade, and I went to the local music store, and the moment I touched a guitar I was in love. I fell in love with Led Zeppelin in less than a day. They were so easy for me to fall in love with when I decided to give them a chance. I fell in love with the Rain Song after I heard the intro. And then the lyrics confirmed my undying love. I wrote a two page paper on the first time I heard it and the emotions that streaked through my head when I first heard it... MQ: the Rain Song by Led Zeppelin, and it remains my favorite song today.
2016-05-18 06:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just click with her. No one says that every girl you like has to be coupled with a sexual attraction. You might fit together really well as friends.
2007-05-01 15:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by מימי 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude...that sucks. I think you have a crush on her for her personality or something other than lust. Is she flirting with you? I dont know what to tell you, except that your situation sucks.
2007-05-01 15:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by linny5227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like her but, you have respect for her being married
2007-05-01 15:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're in love. You must not ever been there before. I hope it works out for you.
2007-05-01 15:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would appear that your concious is trying to tell younot to be involved for you already know shes married.if she were not im guessing that you would have already tried to make a connection.
2007-05-01 15:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you respect her and she is a good person. Maybe you can be friends with her and her husband.
2007-05-01 15:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Gidget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she remind you of your mother? Your sister?
Cause that's what I'm hearing.
2007-05-01 15:49:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋