We've been going out for about a month, and I know he loves me, because im all he talks about. But he gets jelous way easy, and for some reason I always feel guilty when I say I love you back, because I know he seriously means it, and I kinda just return the favor, and say it back. But I do really care about him, and he's got a nice personality. We had a really bad fight last weekend, because he was jelous, but got over it. Another thing that bugs me, is that (not to be biotchy... b/c im not into labels and stuff ) but im alot prettier than he is handsome... and I want my guy to be as hott as me. He has a bad taste of clothes and his hair is spikey in funny places. He looks sexy when he runs (he's really good at track) but other than that... he's not as hott. Help?
2007-05-01 15:29:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gosh I know thta must sound terrible... um that didnt come out completely right. I dont thnk im the hottest thing ever! I know lots of girls prettier than me, but I cant help noticing that im prettier than he is handsome. And I do care about his personality, thats why I was attracted to him.
2007-05-01 15:39:53 · update #1
if you dont like him as much as he likes you then maybe you should breakup. just tell him that you arent feeling the same connection that he is with you.
you really shouldnt just consider what someone looks like to make your decision tho. a good relationship doesnt have to always do with looks.
2007-05-01 15:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by linny5227 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're as shallow as he is pathetic. Don't pat yourself on the back too much because there are a lot of girls out there that are prettier than you, I'll bet on it. However, if he's saying he loves you only after a month then he's got issues. But then again it sounds like you look in the mirror and make out with yourself.
2007-05-01 22:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying about loving someone is not returning a favor. It will just hurt him more in the long run.
If you are not as attracted to this guy as you should be, then I think you already have your answer.
2007-05-01 22:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by tortasinqueso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sounds like the two of you shouldnt be together.
jealous guys are the worst.....he will start to try to control you
get out while you can
you are only attracted to how good he looks when he runs
you guys are still young....you need to know other guys
besides its only been a month....he cant love you yet and you shouldnt say you do just because he says he does
be honest with your feelings
i know, i was in a similar situation once....GET OUT
and good luck
2007-05-01 22:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all honey, it's 2 things wrong already. #1 he's already talking bout he loves you, in a months time how can he love you? #2 JEALOUS!!!!! That's not GOOD!!!! Jealousy can lead to a lot of things. It will make you unhappy first of all and also sometimes be FATAL!!! Leave his *** alone, something ain't right.
2007-05-01 22:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Slim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy doesn't indicate love. It does indicate insecurity and fear on his part. In fact, his actions, including his words, indicate he needs you but certainly not that he loves you. Jealousy isn't any part of love at all ever.
It also very much sounds as though he's using his words of love as a tool to get you to say you love him back.
2007-05-01 22:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well it is all up to you to me its sounds like you two are better friends than you guys are bf and gf so if i was you i would break up with him and tell him you want to be friends cause this aint workin out for you and you just want to be friends
2007-05-01 22:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by alexandra a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself
2007-05-01 22:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like u only like him as a friend, so tell him that and move on cuz that really all that you can do
2007-05-01 22:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are shallow. let him go to find someone who really cares for him, not only like him when he runs.
2007-05-01 22:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋