Not thinking of anyone to ask out now but when I wanted to or in the future I always am afraid of rejection. I am afraid of what she will think of me in the future if she rejects me. So what do I do?
2007-05-01 15:00:29 · 15 answers · asked by Tyler 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well how am I gonna find out if shes interested in me?
2007-05-01 15:06:16 · update #1
only ask a girl out, when she shows interest that she likes you too. dont just ask out a random girl for no reason, get to know her first and you would be in low risk of a rejection
2007-05-01 15:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by i ♥ Food 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It will come to you. I wouldnt worry about it now. EVERYONE is afraid of rejection. But first you need to know that you are the best you can be and that will give you a confidence that no one can damage by refusing you a date. If someone refuses you, it doesnt mean you are a lesser person at all. Just people have different tastes and thats why people date: to learn if they are compatible.
2007-05-01 22:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by barthebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry so much about rejection. If you really like someone or if you really want to ask someone out then you should take the chance and ask her. If you don't then you will always wonder what could've been.
If she does reject you then yes, it will hurt for quite awhile but you will get over it. Believe me, I've had my fair share of rejections.
My point is, if you like her, then go for it. Remember, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
~B-Dub
2007-05-01 22:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by B-Dub 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls reserve the right to change their minds. If you ask a girl out and she (horror of horrors!) says 'no,' she will still think kindly of you for being sweet enough to ask her if you don't take it too hard. So say, "thanks for thinking about it" and ask her again a few weeks later, because she may have changed her mind by then, or she may really want to go to whatever you're asking her to see, etc.
Keep on asking the same girls or new girls to go out with you. There's nothing wrong with being turned down and then accepted later; some girls need several opportunities to go out to work up the courage to say 'yes' or they might be too fat at the time to fit into their favorite outfit, or have an embarrassing zit, or a bad hair week, or lots of other little girl-type things that are not directly involving you.
The law of averages says that one of these times, one or more of them will say 'yes' and go! Then you will have too many dates and need help fending them off!!!
2007-05-01 22:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well man if want to ask a girl out you have to unstand there are better girls out there and then you set your self for the rejectionremeber girls like a certain type of guy so always act your self when you ask her and if she says no then just act cool trust me when she saya no it usaly means she just broke up with someone but then ask her later wuy she'll tell you if she tells you wuy than just relax because there is more fish in the sea.
2007-05-01 22:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by C-MAN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when asking someone out there is always going to be a chance of being rejected but that is just one of the risks....one thing you can do is not get your hopes up too much... if she does reject you she may avoid you for a while but this as well as your hurt feelings will soon pass
2007-05-01 22:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's interested in you if she looks into your eyes, tries to get your attention a lot, tries to touch you, smiles, etc.
everyone is afraid of rejection, because it does suck, but you need to keep one thing in mind, if they reject you, eff them. you shouldnt care what she thinks because what you think about yourself is way more important. and if you have the balls to ask her out, then you should see yourself as awesome. p.s. you are a cutie; i'm sure you can get girls quite easily!
2007-05-01 22:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by weapons of mass seduction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to dinner and the movies. Yeah its old fashion but its a winner. Just releax your do fine and if she says no there are like 30 billion other women in the world.
2007-05-01 22:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The advice here is well, not at its best. But i just want to say....
If you really like a girl, go for it. Yes, hering the 'no' is a very bad thing, even if she is your friend, then you have those weird moments. But if she knows you atually like her their is a bigger hance of her changing her mind to a 'yes.'
I hope this helps you, if you want to talk in private for help, email me!
2007-05-01 22:06:49 · answer #9 · answered by Joe13 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have had alot of guys ask me out.
i like it the best when the just get straight to the point and say it...
"Hey, wanna go out to the movies this friday?" or if you are not sure if she likes you back just say something like... "Me and my friends are heading to the skating rink this saturday, wanna come too?" if you drop hints like that she know you like her. It is easier than getting rejected because if she keeps on saying I busy that means I don't like you.
2007-05-01 22:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by crazily confused 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋