2007-05-01 14:58:31 · 20 answers · asked by Janessa g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are men, they are wired that way. Can't be helped...
No I am overdoing it: nice men are rare, but they exist.
Keep looking and when you find one, stick to 'm!
2007-05-01 15:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sue_C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you look like an attractive and worrying guy and to be easy she does not deserve somebody such as you. i'm sorry to declare that she is cheating on you, the clues are too obtrusive. i comprehend this is going to harm you plenty considering you do easily love her plenty, you gave her multiple opportunities and are very affected person. besides the indisputable fact which you will desire to think of two times approximately marrying her, if she will't stay easy now, she in no way will do. She has lied to you or maybe after being found out, she is cheating on you. A relationship would desire to be geared up on honesty and have faith, you gave her plenty and he or she exceeded over it. You rather deserve greater effective, so think of long and not basic approximately what you like. do you desire to proceed being taken for a fool? Or wreck up along with her and end this one way relationship and sooner or later discover somebody greater deserving of your love? i desire which you will make the ultimate suited determination contained in the tip, sturdy success.
2016-10-04 05:47:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we want what we don't have, we don't realize that what we have is better than we could want, and men are "wired" more differently than women (meaning all we want is sex, sex, sex... believe me, i used to be that way). Take this following story into account (this is purely fictitious, but it happens in so many relationships):
"Chris" and "Sally" have been dating for roughly 2 months, and they're both in their mid twenties. They're very much in love. One night, Chris goes over to Sally's place and she cooks him a nice dinner and after that they go sit on her couch and watch movies and just have a really nice evening together. Things get a little nicer when they kiss and cuddle and hold each other. At around ten thirty in the evening, Chris bids Sally farewell and goes on his way (since the next day is a school day, after all).
About two days later, Sally sees Chris talking to another girl ("Janie"). Sally sneaks up for a closer listen, and hears this:
"...Yeah, sure thing Janie, I'm totally freethis weekend. I don't have any plans..." Crushed, tears rolling down her cheeks, Sally walks away.
After this incident, Chris calls Sally (for the first time that week) and asks if he can go to her place again. Sally agrees, and they have a serious talk (where Sally forces Janie's number out of him).
Next day, Chris sees Janie and asks if they're still on for the weekend. Janie smacks him. Now Chris realizes that his different "wiring" has cost him the love of his life and deeply hurt more people (3) than he ever intended it to hurt.
Hope this helps bring things to light.
--Jake
PS Not all of us cheat (because it's hard enough for some of us to get one girl, and once we have her, we don't EVER want to let her go).
2007-05-01 15:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is weird that most guys are like that, but you cant be stereotypical and say all guys are. You just gotta find the right guy. I've always wondered why if a guy has all these girls hes considered cool and is a pimp but if a girls with a lot of guys shes considered some sort or slut or hoe.
2007-05-01 15:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa where do i begin
guys cheat for a number of reasons..
-there gf isn't "givin anything up" so they look other places
-boredom
-they dont know how good they have it
-they only think with their "little brain"
-they want to know they are still attracted to other girls
-their stupid and dont think about the future consequences only the hear and now moments
2007-05-01 15:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by LG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls cheat too you know, you have to take that into consideration. yeah it sucks but its not just men. a friend of mine's ex cheated on him with seven differant guys
2007-05-01 15:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are stupid and dont know what we have until its gone....some make mistakes, others are just stupid. I don't know...Men are pigs but women are sluts. I don't trust anything with a vagina anymore just as I'm sure you don't trust anything with a penis. He'll get his don't worry, I screwed over plenty of people and paid for it, so will he. D*mn, I'm just all sunshine and kittens tonight =P
2007-05-01 15:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by Remedy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same reason women cheat ty ps all men dont cheat
2007-05-01 15:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For Christ ******* sake, why do girls think that guys are soo terrible? You tricks do the same ******* thing guys do. Guys, cheat and lie, women cheat and lie. GET THE **** OVER IT!!!
2007-05-01 15:05:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They try to inflate their egos by telling themselves that they are better than any woman, therefore they can do whatever they want.
But then, they realize that they are wrong, and slink back, tail between legs, seeking forgiveness.
Dump him.
2007-05-01 15:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋