Okay so....im bisexual and Ive known my best friend for 5 years and secretly ive liked her sister alot i cant even get her out of my head...so i asked her out she wants to but my best friend said she has a huge problem with it and woulndt wanna talk to me anymore so if i choose to go out with her sister there would be an awkward feeling being with her sister cuz they are also close....what should i do
2007-05-01 14:41:47 · 15 answers · asked by desirable poet 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Figure out which is more important to you, your friendship or your crush
2007-05-01 14:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I had a crush on my brothers best friend forever so Ive been there....I think that he never asked me out because of my brother...and I was always sad that he avoided me completely after a while because it was to awkward liking me(if that was the case Im not 100% sure)...so work it out with your best friend and tell her how much you like her sister. I hope it works out for you.
2007-05-01 21:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by pez388 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might cause some awkward situations. If your best friend does not feel comfortable, maybe you shouldn't. Did your friend know you are bisexual? If not, give her time to adjust to the idea. In the meantime, keep things on a friends-only basis.
2007-05-01 21:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,FIRST OF ALL I'M CONCERNED ABOUT THE PERSON YOU CANT GET OUT OF YOUR MIND ,YOUR CLOSE FRIEND THEN YOU, NOW IF YOU CANT GET HER OUT OF YOUR HEAD AND YOU ARE BI WHATS IT ABOUT JUST SEX ,YOUR BEST FRIEND HAS A PROBLEM WITH IT BE CAUSE SHE KNOWS YOU AND DO NT WANT YOU TO DO IT BECAUSE SHE MUST KNOW YOU BETTER THE YOU KNOW YOUR SELF ,YOU ARE ,DISRESPECTING YOUR BEST FRIEND BY DOING IT ANY WAY ,YOUR SHOWING YOUR SELF AS A SO CALLED FRIEND IF YOU DO THIS , I'M OLD IVE BEEN THROUGH THE MILL , BEING BI IS UNFAIR TO BOTH SIDES IF YOU ARE NOT HONEST WITH ALL THREE, PLUS YOUR SELF I'M GLAD I'M NOT IN ANY RELATIONSHIP ,YOU WANT THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS, AND YOU CAN OF COURSE MORE POWER TO YOU ,BUT IVE HAD ISSUES I HAD TO HAVE SOME ONE AND AFTER WARDS THE RUSH STAYED UNTIL I SEEN SOME ONE ELSE I HAD TO HAVE . BALANCE YOUR FRIENDSHIP AGAINST ON A SEXUAL CRAVING,WHEN YOU CANT MAKE A DECISION ,ON FRIENDSHIP ,SEX,AND BEING BISEXUAL, YOU EITHER NEED TO GO TO SEX ANONYMOUS, OR PER SAD FOR COUNSELING,I'M JUST TRYING TO BE HONEST NOT THAT I'M TRYING TO HINDER YOU BUT TO HELP GUIDE YOU TO A MORE POSITIVE ,AND CONCRETE LIFE OF TRUTH ABOUT YOUR SITUATION ,I FEEL FOR YOU BUT YOU NEED TO GET SOME GROUP MOTIVATION THAT PEOPLE IN YOUR SAME SEXUAL ORIENTATION MY BEST WISHES FOR YOU NO MATTER WHAT ROAD YOU TAKE.
2007-05-01 22:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clear it with the best friend. Listen to House, Bro's before ho's man :) (meaning if you lose a girlfriend/boyfriend you will still have a bro to talk to about it, but it u lose a bro u aint got nothin f00l).
I should stop trying to be black, Im aussie thats cool enough!
2007-05-01 21:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your freind if you want to keep her amigine what the future will be like.Think if things don't work out you've lost two friends you cared about.I don't think your friend could handle the situation.Mabe try later mabe your friend might change her mind.Peace
2007-05-01 21:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eeeeewwwww
2007-05-01 22:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think the sister is bi she might not be into bisexual behavior or hasn't that crossed your mind. Not all women are bi.....Thank god.....
2007-05-01 21:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are rules against this. The rules are in place for a reason.
2007-05-01 21:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk it out with both of them and try to find a compromise.
2007-05-01 21:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋