There's this guy I like... and I think he knows... but I don't know what to do to make him notice me... I've tried everything... I really like this guy more than anybody I've ever liked before, and I really just want him to look at me! Any ideas on how to..... Become what a guy wants...
2007-05-01 14:34:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go up to him and talk to him
2007-05-01 14:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Adrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...
Ok guys are simple and more often that not dont respond to subtle hints..
Hang out with him, without being obvious!
Smile at him when he makes jokes.. (guys love thinking they are funny)
maybe even do something in a group, with him, like go to the movies or hang out.
lol - when I was a teen and I had this problem, I was very sneeky... I usually conned mum into letting me have a "little" party or something, and then invited 3 boys and 3 girls, all pre-matched up... lol
It worked every time.
Anyways if those things dont work, try writing him a letter, keep it simple and not to overbearing but tell him how u feel, then at least you will know either way.
Good luck
2007-05-01 21:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the old female logic, why talk to a guy when you can dress up so scandelus you are borderline nude. Dont belive what the commercials tell you, its the biggest misconception ever.
Im going to give you the same advice i give all the girls afraid of confrontation. Converse with him, about anything. Start with something simple and move on from there (even if its one of those "so how about that weather huh" you can move onto say snow snowmen carrots food dinner).
If you are unsure on how to do it, try imagining a conversation with one of your girlfriends. Its essentually the same except you wont be discussing your periods or what shoes look good :P
2007-05-01 21:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see theres this problem with everyone.Yes we notice you but thats not the point we need you to come up and tell us what if he likes you and he thinks you dont most people are people and act the same.
Just tell him .Flirt a little at frist maybe then see what you can do.
2007-05-01 21:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by alex m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to "become" anything, you should be able to stay the way you are. maybe he's really intrested in somebody else. and what ever you do dont become obsesive thats a big turn off.
2007-05-01 21:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you ever went up to him and start talking to him ? Maybe that is what he is waiting for.
2007-05-01 21:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you need is confidence in everything that you do, including yourself. be proud of who you are and be the part.
2007-05-01 21:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by fancy4not 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u just talk to him and see what happens
2007-05-01 21:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by barry o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself if he dosent like you for you then he isnt right
2007-05-01 21:37:28 · answer #9 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋