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okay my friend is in that moment that she says she is never going to find love like u know that specail person .... and becuz of that she is kinda getting depressed and i really need help on that!!!!
i really LOVE my friend so much and i don't want her to be in those problems i try to help her and i guess is makes it worse

HELP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-01 12:52:09 · 23 answers · asked by bored8568568 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

How can your friend think that she will never find that special person, when she has you as a friend. How could she not know love with you as a apart of her life. We tend to define love with intimacy. We think that because we don't have a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife or significant other to define love, that we don't have love.
Sometimes the only relationships that we can count on, is the love of true friend. The person that is there for the good, the bad, when you are happy, when you are sad. A true friend shares in the special moments and the not so special moments. A friend can see the ugly but knows the beauty within. They wipe tears, share smiles. They help you embrace life and all it has to offer. They encourage you not to give up, because God has a purpose for us and you are loved.
Tell your friend don't be depressed. Tell her to appreciate what is here and be patient for what's to come. She not alone, she has someone to share her life with. There are some people in life that don't have that. They live in solitude. So in the meantime until....Be there for each other, share the splendor that God has planted for you, your friendship.
Tell her that on the temporary basis to welcome you as a substitute, until the real thing comes along.

2007-05-01 13:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Li 2 · 0 0

You can encourage your friend, but she is the only one who can decide to be happy. We are all looking for love, including myself. But, in the meantime, I dont mope around, feeling sorry for myself. I decide to focus my energy on making myself a better person, that when the right person comes along, I will be a great girlfriend. Tell your friend that she is perfect and even if she doesnt have a boyfriend, she is still a good catch. She needs to find a hobby and stop being depressed?

As for your love versus like question. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4 for a definition of love.

2007-05-01 13:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 0 0

They say that if you are dehyrated in a dessert and stuff, just thinking that you are going to make it can cause your body to give up and die. Dont underestimate the power of thought, just thinking she will never find love will have her put off an aura that says "I dont want love cause i cannot".

As hypacritical as this is, saying beliving in love when I do not (perhaps I need a change in mindset), im going to say it anyway. I would have her talk to some guy who can tell her about the inner workings of a guy (that sounds suss).

If she has inside information on the inner workings then her fear will be reduced. After all the biggest fear is the fear of the unknown.

2007-05-01 12:58:53 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0 0

First off, if you and your friend are under the age of about 24, don't worry so much about it. You're young, and you should be focusing on creating your own identity.

Life has a tendency of throwing things at you when you're not overanalyzing them.

That said, the literal answer to your question (as defined by Merriam-Webster) is that like is "to feel attraction toward or take pleasure in," whereas love is "strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties" or "warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion."

2007-05-01 12:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by djjohnnychrome 2 · 0 0

Like is When You Like Someone As a Friend or A Buddy. Love is whenever you see this person you cant contain yourself, you just want to hug and kiss them and not let go. It's Also When You Can Never Stop Thinking of Them

2007-05-01 12:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The intensity of the feelings.
And love is more selfless than like.
Like comes and goes.
Love lasts.

Everyone goes through those moments that your friend is going through. Let her know she's not alone in this although she might be feeling lonley.
Take her out for Girls Night.

2007-05-01 12:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by CrystalEyes 2 · 0 0

The difference between LIKE and LOVE is the difference between "I think I can live with you" and "I know I can't live without you."

The only way to help someone through an issue like this is to listen. You can't tell someone how to feel, and unfortunately, you can't make someone feel a certain way. Just listen and be there for them.

Jen

2007-05-01 13:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by juniper366 3 · 0 0

Lust is intense and useful, and it comes on unexpectedly. It frequently feels basically like love at first, yet then it fades as without delay because it got here. Lust is basically the overwhelming urge to be with somebody, as close as humanly achievable. It would not might desire to be actual sexual lust (regardless of the undeniable fact that that's the main basic sort); it could additionally be emotional lust, as interior the useful yearning to experience like somebody loves you or the instantaneous might desire to experience closeness and intimacy. Love is extra diffused. Love could be obtrusive and could be felt at first once you meet somebody, in spite of the undeniable fact that this is not any longer somewhat as pressing and demanding a feeling. once you're in love, you do no longer experience any desperation and burning desire to be with somebody NOW. once you love somebody, you're constantly at the same time on your hearts, and the affection is oftentimes adequate to maintain you joyful cloth. in spite of the undeniable fact that, once you do get to work out them, you're that plenty happier. Love additionally would not come on powerfully unexpectedly; it takes time to construct up. And as quickly as you love somebody, the affection in no way is going away.

2017-01-09 06:57:26 · answer #8 · answered by kunich 4 · 0 0

Just tell her to keep looking for that special someone and to never give up hope. As a friend you should not be scared of what will happen, but support her in her decisions, unless you need to intervene.

2007-05-01 12:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by AFox 3 · 0 0

Longevity

2007-05-01 12:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by nekoolzec 3 · 0 0

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