ok im in love with this guy. we have been friends since october 06. he only wants to b friends because of his past relationships. How can i show him i really care and want to be with him?
2007-05-01 12:02:36 · 11 answers · asked by SEXYRED 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you have to show him that you care deeply for him. Give him some space and allow him to see you for the wonderful person you are. Show him trust, and hopefully he returns it. If not, try to remain friends and consider someone else.
2007-05-01 12:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say don't make the same mistake that some girls do and sleep with him, that will just make a mess. If I were in the same situation as he, I guess the best way for you to get through to him would be to hang around him,not enough to be annoying but often enough to let him know you care. Just act like the dream girlfriend only without the love part and he might fall in love with you. Also you could bring up the fact that maybe you are a good healer for his past relationships. Good Luck to you.
2007-05-01 19:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Taddster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell. Since october is not that long, especially if he has had trouble in the past. You need to not pressure him and wait for him to move the relationship. If an entire year passes, and the relationship has not improved, then you need to honestly ask him what is wrong. Otherwise just have fun and never stop laughing with him :)
2007-05-01 19:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Its obvious this guy still has some wounds and isn't quite ready to move on yet. Be there for him as a good friend, let him know your feelings, but don't push him. Eventually your patience will pay off
2007-05-01 19:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being his friend....He obviously has had others who have said they would be true to him and have betrayed his trust...and so he has his guard up now...so whoever want to get close will have to be true...not say they will be but prove they are...eventually he will care enough about this person that he can accept the possibility of failure...but right now he can't and you really don't want such a relationship to have such negative outlook to start off with...and neither does he...be patient...be a true friend.
2007-05-01 19:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time but try and tell him what has happened in the past will not affect how you are with him and just tell him how much you care for him x good luck
2007-05-01 19:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by Edgein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you said males only..... anyways give him some time and keep showing him you care by being thoughtful, being his friend, establish trust and look cute at all times! Patience if you rush it it might back fire.
2007-05-01 19:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by lola v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've talked to him about it...
However, if he were really interested he wouldn't hesistate. I would suggest that you be friends, be supportive, but don't pin your hopes on this guy being more than just friends, especially if he's told you that already.
2007-05-01 19:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Dave C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that you can do is be patient and be consistant over time... it is time that will show him... anything else has no meaning.
2007-05-01 19:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, just tell him, duh!! He won't know unless you tell him. If that doesn't work, make him give you a chance to prove you aren't like his EXs.
Neurotically Yours,
NightSpawn
2007-05-01 19:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by the_nightspawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋