We share a 2 bedroom condo and we have been friends for 2 years now and i have always had a thing for him...I went on vacation for a week to cali for visit my friend and while i was gone i relized something and that is , That i love him i mean i really,really,really love him and i was so sure of it ...I had it all planned out to tell him and everything but when i returned back from the trip he said that he wanted to tell me something and then he told me he met someone who he likes and wanted advice on her to get her to open up because she is shy and i was in shocked because i was gonna tell him but now i dunno what to do?
2007-05-01 11:40:14 · 10 answers · asked by kiss_me2207 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should definatly say something to him about how you feel!!! you don't want to look back years from now wonderring what would have happened if you had said something. the worst that's gonna happen is that he won't like you that way and then what, you are still in the position you are now accept that you know and you can move on. either way you will be progressing your life right?!?
2007-05-01 11:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by willd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all do u no who this girl iz cuz if u dont then who knows it might be you, but if it isnt you then what you should do is wait for him, try waiting till the last year and tell him your true feelings for him, but do not tell him when he is in an relationship cuz he might get confused and reject you..so the best thing right now iz 2 act like a rly rly good friend and help him out!Maybe if you do that he'll see how a nice person you are, and later he might feel the same way about you!!
2007-05-01 18:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Hayley L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he isn't talking about telling you that he likes you. Maybe he's just trying to get your advice without really asking you for it. Get it?
On the other hand, it's probally not you. Just get over it. Wouldn't it be hard trying to date him while all the while dating him? What if you guys break up, and one of you has to/wants to move out? What would you do then?
2007-05-01 18:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by fire420ice? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE HONEST, and don't waste any more time. Tell him how you feel or you will spend the rest of your life looking back at this moment with regret. Love is a precious commodity. Too precious to let it slip away without a fight.
2007-05-01 18:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mark L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel why you still have the chance! If you wait around forever then you will never know what could have bee. Don't live life in regret go tell him how you feel before it terars you apart.
2007-05-01 18:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really tell him, you never know what could happen. he might have feelings for you but he isn't sure if you have them for him, so he doesn't want to tell you. just sit down and talk to him. he might be really happy because he has been wanting to hear that !
2007-05-01 18:44:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes asking for advice, that means that he hasn't sealed the deal. theres still room to move in. you better jump on it quick!!
2007-05-01 18:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel
2007-05-01 18:42:59 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What have you got to lose?? Pour your heart out!
2007-05-01 18:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it mite be you. best of luck ask him
2007-05-01 18:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋