BUT IT HURT LIKE HELL! he entered me a little, and the pain was too much for me to handle so we stopped. However, since then, he has been fingering me (first with 1 finger, then 2, then 3, then 4 and it doesnt hurt) my question is: do you think it would still hurt now that i think my vagina is stretched a little more now??
2007-05-01 11:22:23 · 21 answers · asked by im 2 fly 2 fall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah not at all
2007-05-01 11:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by I Don't Take Your Crap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on the size of the male. Of course it is going to hurt the first time and maybe a few times afterwards. That is because you are a virgin. That happens to every female. They also have a little spotting. That is because he broke your cherry. So don't freak out if it happens. My hubby was my first and it hurt like hell for three or four times afterwards. It is because he is big. He couldn't really get much of it in the first time because it wouldn't fit in my little body. Good luck and keep trying.
2007-05-01 19:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lubricating products on the market to help with that problem. Fingers are smaller than penises. So you really are not streched out. Really you sound like a teenager and I would say wait anyway. After the first time you will be so emotionally confused you are not going to know how to deal with that. So take your time and don't be in a rush to do anything. If he is then you should tell him to move on.
2007-05-01 18:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by cinnamon35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that it would have to do with several things. If he broke your hymen, it shouldn't really hurt anymore. If he has been pushing his fingers deep into you, it would probably mean that your not really a virgin anymore. Unless he is hung like a horse, you probably won't have much or any pain having sex now.
2007-05-01 18:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by defrost1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay it wont hurt as bad unless he popped ur cherry. a cherry is tht little blockage witchin a cm of your vagina it hurts like hell 2 pop and then once it does the next day you wont be able 2 barely walk and it bleeds everywhere 4 like a hour[kinda likea 60min. period][[but the blood comes out alot at a time]]
2007-05-01 18:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be uncomfortable the first time no matter what. He should just go really slow, and make sure you're realy loosened up with fingering. I think it would be a lot more comfortable, but since you're probably going to be nervous you're going to tighten... make sure you're really lubed, whether it be natural, or a waterbased lubricant such as WET that goes with condoms... have him go really slow and easy and you'll loosen up as it goes along.
2007-05-01 18:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, now it won't hurt so bad. Try some kind of lubricant to make it easier to enter.
2007-05-01 18:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by fire420ice? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a virgin anymore, but neither are you pregnant. keep it that way!!!
There are plenty of things you can do besides intercourse and if you are still in school, you ought to wait.
If you are determined to have sex, be sure to use contraceptives. Contraceptive sponges AND condoms at a minimum.
2007-05-01 18:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he got 4 fingers in you and it didn't hurt? honey, i've had two kids, one almost 10 lbs, and i don't think i could comfortably try 3 fingers!!
but, then again, my husband is kind of small.
2007-05-01 18:28:33 · answer #9 · answered by casw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are no longer a virgin and I would think that it wouldn't hurt anymore.
2007-05-01 18:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use lots of lubricant, buy something made specifically for that purpose such as KY Jelly so it will be easier for him to enter you.
2007-05-01 18:25:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋