been with my bf for 7 months...we had an off period of over a month, broke up..this past weekend i had a 1 night stand and then me and my bf just got back together last night, monday. do i have to tell him????
2007-05-01 11:03:34 · 12 answers · asked by starlillie99 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You weren`t together at the time, therefore it isn`t his business.
2007-05-01 11:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by L0VE . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T,at least not as some sort of thing too make you feel better.He should be aware that you were apart at the time and it's none of his business what you did.How do you know he didn't have some relationships also?? Best leave it be,at least until there may be a damn good reason to say something.You sound guilty but as you said ,you were apart so I would guess you had feelings for him even then but you didn't have an agreed commitment so what are you talking about.If you bring it up you will only satisfy your own feelings but you take a good chance of blasting his feeling and make him feel like you could forget him in a flash and have relations with anyone...harsh but very likely
2007-05-01 11:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by Tip Anring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No use making yourself feel better at his expense.
If the two of you were broken up, what you did was none of his business. On the other hand, if he got his ashes hauled during that time, you have no right to get all jealous about it.
If you confess, you will only hurt his pride and his feelings. So don't tell, and don't ask.
2007-05-01 11:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...why should you.. you 2 where broke up..do you think he will tell you if he had a fling during the break up.and if he did you shouldn't care...go on with life ..it's too short to worry about small stuff like that ..all it will do is bring up hurtfull feelings and he will also not like the idea of wondering what you are doing when you are not around him...even when you haven't done anything bad...so ask your self do you really feel like dealing with all that..NO..so move on enjoy life with him again...good luck
2007-05-01 11:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by ED S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't see why you should. It was a fling, and you are not with the other person, you are with your bf now. What you did while you two were not together is not important anymore. If he asks however, I would be honest with him.
2007-05-01 11:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't have to tell him..you weren't together right?? so its none of his business..the same way i am sure it would bother you to know he may have been with someone else while you were apart. It doesn't matter as long as you are faithful to him now that you're back together. What would be the purpose of telling him??
2007-05-01 11:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by ifyewonlyknew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him and be honest because if you dont he will find out someway and that will ruin your relationship. If you just tell him im sure he will be upset but he will be glad you were honest with him and he will know he can trust you. Good luck babe!
2007-05-01 11:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by msodd33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be honest. Tell him everything or he'll never learn the real you.
And if you weren't together, don't feel guilty. You didn't cheat on him.
2007-05-01 11:07:19 · answer #8 · answered by ladywood128 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, if things get serious chances are he's going to find anyway and it will hurt ten times more.
You just have to say it...
2007-05-01 11:09:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, or you wont ever feel comfortabler aroudn him again. and if you ever get married it'll just get worse and worse as time goes on.
2007-05-01 11:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Houf Arted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋