My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday... but still told me she loves me but she had been going through alot of issues finances, and not eating etc. 5 days before she was fine. She basically told me that she needs space and that she thinks that by the space she will get her i guess mushy feelings back. The relationship was great up to that point, but she has a short temper and anything gets to her. I want to wait cuz i Love her also. what should i do and if im waisitng my time waiting for the girl i love. she didnt tell me that she never wanted to see me again or anything i figure she just upset and thats all. women help me out here!!! the relationship had been a little boring for the last week or so cuz we havent done much but all relationships go through issues and im willing to fix it.
2007-05-01 09:54:20 · 13 answers · asked by Kris L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds to me like she's just going through some things. maybe she's depressed and needs to seek counseling. the same thing happened to me yesteray and my boyfriend told me we needed some space, because when we get back together we will be stronger and happier. just give her her space, and in time she will come back. i mean if you seem really cool about the whole situation maybe she'll come back sooner or later. it shocked my boyfriend when i was like ok that sounds good to me because usually im the one crying and begging him back. maybe she just wants the attention or maybe she gets pleasure out of making you miserable.? just go along with it, it could be the best thing for you
2007-05-01 10:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by red-head2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asked for space, then by all means give it to her. It sounds like she's going through some stuff and maybe she'll come back to you. The worst thing to do is to not give her the space. Don't let her think she can break up with you and still have you. Don't talk to her for a few weeks and see what she does.
2007-05-01 09:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of whether or not she comes back around, you don't immediately need to go on to Plan B. If this relationship is over, you need time to focus on getting better and recognizing what went on in this relationship so it doesn't happen again. If she does come around, then maybe everything will be better the second time around. If she has been angry and losing her temper around you, you may want to second guess why you want to be in a relationship with her anyway.
2007-05-01 09:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by LR Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd give her a month. Seriously, that's enough time for anyone to get things straightened out etc...if she's still not together then, you may want to cut your losses and move on. I say that because there's no reason to wait for someone who won't s**** or get off the pot, you know? Good luck!!
2007-05-01 09:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're young and you haven't been together all that long. Less than six months I'd guess, maybe even less than three months? My advice: move on. Life is short, you'll meet other people. You need to follow your dreams before you let another person limit your possibilities.
2007-05-01 09:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to be 100% for you before you will continue a relationship. Maybe you'll still be around when she decides, maybe not. But honestly, move on to someone who can give you all of themselves.
2016-05-18 02:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice is "If it's meant to be...it will be"
You're doing the right thing by being understanding and respecting her space, she will soon see that and if her problems mend, who knows it might be what makes the road back together a smoother ride?
Best of luck with your heart!
2007-05-01 10:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by ProudArmyWife2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the space she needs. I hate it when a guy doesn't give me the space i need. It's a real turn off for me. Just back off for a bit. I'm sure things will work out.
2007-05-01 10:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by elena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not going anywhere.She wonts you to sweat her and blow her phone up the minute you don't she will be calling you.Don't call her or answer her calls for a few days and watch what happens.Have you ever watched the move Two Can Play That Game?You can learn alote.
2007-05-01 10:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by BABY GIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can wait for her, but don't let any opportunity pass you by. She might come back to you, she might not. If she does, then she does, if she doesn't, then you'll find someone new. So if you want to wait for her, wait for her, but if you happen to meet a girl you like, and have chemistry with, then go for it. You don't know if she's coming back or not, and you don't want to live your life full of regrets.
2007-05-01 09:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋