i liked this girl and last year i messed it up and scared her; so now she has a boyfriend....they weer walking in the hall, and i saw him kiss her(1sec french); it burned a hole through my heart...and it makes me feel pissed off. Makes me feel that guy is better than me, and he 'has' her. This just fuels me into working out and stuff. I hope they break up soon and i can apologize to her and work things out. by that time i can imporve my physique and get 'hotter' , and more appealing.
17y/o
2007-05-01 09:28:29 · 34 answers · asked by fahd_dogg 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel i was treated unfairly last year, i didnt get that chance to show myself; i was trying to ask her out and her friends(2guys including) didnt let me have any rpivacy, i had to just run away from the situation cuz it embarrassed her.
2007-05-01 09:37:17 · update #1
it kills me when i see taht he got such an easy chance and now she is his gf, when i tried all i can,with so much feelings and i still didnt get a chance.As if he is better than me. i have a 7.5/10 face atleast, and im taller than him, all i need to do is get bigger, sexier body, and i can atleast torment her and all the other girls for whats done to me.
2007-05-01 09:40:49 · update #2
k, i didnt force to anything, and i really loved her, and im like the nicest calmest guy at school. Not lying. I'm a guy with feelings(not acting gay). I'm nice nice nice.
2007-05-01 09:45:35 · update #3
Better P---ed Off than P---ed On.
Frankly it sounds like YOU messed up the relationship.
Since you are in school give it some time, you will have more than one girlfriend in high school.
Write a very nice apology and deliver it with a nice small bunch of flowers. That is about the best you can do. If she still is interested maybe at least you can still be friends.
2007-05-01 09:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you have some anger issues! If you scared her, then you need to stay away from her. Don't be a stalker! Focus your attention on something besides her. If you aren't a creep or a stalker (although it sounds like you may be), then stop obsessing over her. She's with someone else and you've admitted that it's your fault.......you messed it up. Be happy for her and find someone else. Also, maybe take a moment to apologize to her (with NO strings attached or requirements from her to forgive you or get back with you). Maybe just tell her you know she's with someone else and you respect that, but you are truly sorry for what you did (whatever it was).......assuming you are truly sorry for whatever you did. If you scared her by trying to force her to have sex, then stay away from her........and consider getting some help for your aggression towards women. What really disturbs me about your question is that you are talking about your anger that someone else "has" her as though this girl is a possession to be had. You don't talk about love or being heartbroken that you have lost her just that someone else has her. I think you need to re-evaluate your relationships with women and understand that women are NOT possessions to be had. They are friends, companions, someone to be loved, respected.......not to be HAD.
2007-05-01 09:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Amy27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you messed up and broke up with her, you thought she will be vulnerable and devastated, instead she found somebody and here you are still by yourself, its like slap on your face, seeing her happy with another guy, and kissing him, you are jealous. Seems like you are controlling person, and you have to have your way, you have become obsessed.this has become sort of revenge and you are becoming bitter and vicious, which is a red signal to me. I strongly suggest that you get some counseling and either change the school or move or quit, as long as she is visible, you will be miserable. To get over her you need to find yourself a gf and start dating, there are lots of fish in the sea and this is not the end of the world, who knows you have something better in store for you.
2016-05-18 02:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lost a battle to win the girl. it sucks as a guy but i think its more about not winning then really liking that girl. Guys want all the more what they cant have. Make yourself "hot" for yourself and the right girl will come along. Dont wait around for her. I promise you in two years, you will wonder why you went so crazy over her. I've been where your at man and it gets better. Screw her, work on you!
2007-05-01 09:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by bighelp 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have some childhood issues that need to be worked out. If you don't this pattern will keep repeating itself over and over again.. That would be very sad indeed. Please seek some counseling.Good luck to you.P.S. Improving your physique is not what's going to make you more appealing. It's what comes from the inside that counts most.
2007-05-01 09:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by seashell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is probably better, not better than you but better for her, if you messed up buddy, you should know by now that everything you do has consequences, apologize to her now, don't wait until they break up, what if they don't? I don't think you've learn a lot, do you think you will fix everything by getting "hotter"? Grow up a little and then try again.
2007-05-01 09:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by AleOmar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, your only 17 and I know that it hurts seeing someone you like with someone else, but I would try ignoring her as much as possible and try not to show that it bugs you when you see them together. Maybe she's testing you...who knows. Just act cool about it and maybe in the future she'll have a change of heart....if not, your still young and maybe someone even better will come into your life and you'll forget all about her.
2007-05-01 09:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by chico01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get over her and find a new girl. Since you scared her away, it will probably be hard to get her back, so try to forget about her and give other girls a chance but if you hear about a break-up between she and her boyfriend then you can look at your options and try to get her again.
2007-05-01 09:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't ask a question, but a quick suggestion would be...why wait to apologize? Even if nothing ever comes of it, you'd be a better person by apologizing. Good luck!
2007-05-01 09:31:27 · answer #9 · answered by Grace 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't have to say you were a teenager, your childish temper gave it away. You know, you don't have to wait till they break up to apologize, if you do, then you don't mean it. And you don't care for this girl at all, if you did, you would never wish for her to break up, you would only hope that she was happy, and if that meant being with you, then that would be a plus.
2007-05-01 09:32:09 · answer #10 · answered by american_muscle_101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋