that she was not ready to have a boyfriend or any relationship....I kept following her and kept her company for several months...Finally, she agreed to go out with me...Then we made out but no sex...Recently she found out that I had a girl friend and she ignored me....I told her that I broke up with my girlfriend arealdy and insisted her to come back to me....She agreed....The problem is: she is not spending time with me as much as before...And she only responds to me only when I insist her....How can I gets her back to a normal relationship?
2007-05-01 09:22:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may want to be treated better then what you have treated her, i am not saying you don't treat her good. But you have done some things wrong that she may not like. You cheated on your gf with this girl, you broke up with your gf for this girl, and maybe this girl doesn't want you to do the same thing to her in the future when you find another girl. Now you can either come clean and stick with one girl and treat her like shes never been treated, or you can be a player and forget. She may also need space to think about why she might want to come back to you or not. If you really want to steal her heart, suprise her with a romantic evening and see how she reacts. If you get a good response, then go from there! Good luck though!
2007-05-01 09:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant get your relationship back to normal because you never had a real relationship from the start!
when you first meet her she has told you that she wasnt ready to have an relationship, when a girl sometimes say this it's because they might had came out of a bad relationship before they meet you! then when she start's to go with you she finds out that you was cheating! talk about her luck being bad huh? this is why you wont also have a normal relationship, cause by now this chick might not even have trust in any guy! it's gonna take a REAL MAN to make this girl feel good again. so stop being so selfish, it's not about YOU!!
2007-05-01 16:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by becca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing you like you played her.
I feel sorry for the girl you broke up with just because some other girl told you what to do.
When you get married, I have a feeling you are a target for spousal abuse, get a backbone, bud, and apologize to the girl you "dissed" and tell the girl that you so badly want a relationship with to take a hike!!!
2007-05-01 16:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to sit down and discuss how you feel about the state of the relationship. It sounds like she just really only wants to be lovers not really be in a relationship.
2007-05-01 16:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To put it bluntly. You acted like a jerk. Stereo-Typical male. Coerces the girl and neglects to her he's married or has GF. You think she'll want you, knowing you're a lying creep. Get some morals and MAYBE some girl might want to date you
2007-05-01 16:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by swan_jun_g3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't trust you because you were not TRUTHFUL.
It is a tricky concept. But it means being honest from the beginning.
She isn't interested.
2007-05-01 16:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She thinks you're a player. Just let her be. Give her space and she will realize she misses you. In the mean time, keep doing your own thing. Bothering her will only make matters worse.
2007-05-01 16:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by LJ 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't.. you were messing around with her when you had a girlfriend. Why wouldn't she think you'd do the same to her?
2007-05-01 16:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by KaLei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be very hard, you broke her trust and probally hurt her, so keep telling her your sorry and how you really feel aout her.
2007-05-01 16:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girls don't like guys that act like little puppies that follow them around.
2007-05-01 16:26:51 · answer #10 · answered by Tank Girl 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋