Please help me.....please :(?

Question

Okay yesterday I was with a guy, and I am seriously in a lot of guilt and pain right now emotionally. We were fooling around, and althouh no sexual intercourse took place, I just have this crazy fear. Things were getting a little out of hand, and he kept fingering me. Although there was nothing like a "glob" of his liquid on his fingers, I am not sure if there was maybe a LITTLE. The thing is, he also never went fully "in"...perhaps 1 inch MAX (I am a virgin so it started hurting). We were rubbing up against each other a lot and I am worried maybe some of his seminal liquids got into me....

What are the odds I could be pregnant? My period is due on the 18th of May, PLEASE HELP ME. This happened last friday, and today is tuesday. My last period was April 18th, and my cycles last approximately a month. I should be ovulating may 2nd...could I get pregnant? I am so worried. It's killing me. I realize I made a horrible mistake. I really do. Can someone just tell me if I should be worried?

Oh and I did not mean this happened yesterday. This scenario happened friday. 4 days have passed of torture :(

Answer 1

From what you are saying, I would not worry too much about being pregnant.....it's a possibilty, but a slim one. However, you need to be a little more assertive in saying No.........OR, buy some condoms and next time things get heavy, use them. You are engaging in some activity that could give you an STD. Genital warts and herpes which are both contagious and have no cure. If you are grown up enough to be messing around like this then you need to make the grown up choice to protect yourself or say NO. I am betting AIDS or a baby are not in your life plan right now.

Answer 2

I don't want to lecture you but perhaps if you are having this much guilt you probably aren't ready for sex. I say this because when I lost my virginity I felt such guilt and I didn't even enjoy it. I ignored the feelings and continued to have sex. It wasn't until I met my boyfriend now years later that I don't feel guilty because I know he is the guy for me and I am old enough and ready for sex.

You should also make sure he is using a condom regardless of how far it goes in. This will prevent not only pregnancy it will prevent STDs.

It is VERY unlikely that you are pregnant. If you still have the feeling you are go and buy a First Response pregnancy test, take the test on May 13. First Response is the only brand that can detect pregnancy hormones before you even miss your period.

Bottom line you shouldn't be worried and maybe you should not have sex until you are ready for potential consequences.

Answer 3

If you are familiar with your cycle and you know when to expect ovulation and your period, you are probably okay.

Sperm do not survive indefinitely in the vagina, due to the acidic nature and thickening of the mucus. That's why so many are released during ejaculation - they need massive numbers to have any odds for procreation. Since the number would be considerably less without full ejaculation and since they would have farther to swim, I'd say pregnancy is unlikely - sperm will not survive five days in the vagina and/or the uterus.

Try to rest easy - if you don't, the stress can delay your period and you will panic even more. If you are still very worried, take a pregnancy test 2-3 days BEFORE your period, so that you can ease your mind and let your period come as normal.

Answer 4

The answer is yes. You are not God and even if you know when your periods are supposed to be and when you ovulate, you CANNOT control sperm in any way except staying away from it. He could have ejaculated outside of you near your vaginal opening and you could still get pregnant. The fact that you said he was ONLY one inch inside of you means you have no idea how this whole thing works. Rubbing on each other if it was skin to skin in the genital area or him having sperm on his fingers or him being one inch inside of you can all cause you to get pregnant. So, YES worry. And if it turns out you aren't pregnant be thankful and learn something from this experience. Any liquid at all that comes out of any guys penis can get your pregnant. Sperm can live inside of you for 7 days + and if it is inside of you at just the right time, BAM, you are going to get pregnant. Unless you WANT to get pregnant, stop playing with fire with "some guy." Unless you are ready to face being pregnant 100% don't play the game. Sorry if this doesn't make you feel better, but you are acting out some very high risk behavior that will get you if you keep it up.

Answer 5

Take a deep breath; you should have enough between then and ovulation that if any semen did get inside of you, the sperm will all be dead by the time you ovulate.

There's no sense in dwelling on it; ask forgiveness, forgive yourself, knowing that you're human and we all make mistakes, and move on. I know you're going to worry until your period arrives, but I wish you wouldn't; I am sure it will come. If you stress too much, it might end up throwing it off, and you'll drive yourself even more crazy. Odds are quite low that you are pregnant.

I wish you well!

Answer 6

I am not going to say that you are not going to be pregnant. If semen did get inside you it could definently get you pregnant. Semen can last in your vagina for up to 5 days. But what I will say is it can be unlikely that you will become pregnant from this. I would not worry at all. Now if you miss your period by a few days if you are normally exactly ontime, then you should worry. It is a good sign that you are worried at the moment although it might not seem that way to you, but with this worry I am sure you will be a bit more cautious next time. Good luck and take care hun. :D

Answer 7

30 days is not any intent to panic!! Everyone womans cycle is exclusive and despite the fact that we pay attention that cycles are 28 days that's now not precise for every person, actually its extra of an average. Some womens cycle is going over 30 days. And now not every person's cycle is the identical each month. Also if you're younger, your cycle can particularly range! In reality I don't forget a few peers of mine now not having a interval for a pair months. And for a few men and women it's going to range for his or her whole lives. I could wait it out until you will have every other indicators of anything being improper.

Answer 8

I am so sorry you are going through this, but I totally understand. I dated a guy when I was younger and he pushed me to do some things I wasn't really comfortable with and I felt so guilty afterwards.

I didn't lose my virginity (thank God) but I came close and it took a long time to work through the guilt and my fears. Just ask God wholeheartedly to forgive this sin and He will forgive you. And use this as a lesson not to go too far again.

There's a very slim possibility that you could be pregnant from contact with his semen but it is really a slim chance, like 1 or 2 percent.

Because your period was April 18th you might not have ovulated yet which means pregnancy chance is even lower still.

I am praying for you. Email me if you need to [e-mail]

God bless

Answer 9

i know exactly how you must be feeling. i am sort of in the same situation as you but i definitly have a way bigger chance of being pregnant! what i mean to say is i know how you must be feeling and i empathise with you. however i highly dought you are pregnant dont be worrying and try not to stress too much. if your period does end up being late wait about 4/5 days as stress can also cause it to be delayed and then if your still not sure take a test. i am one day late so far and so scared but am still going to wait as im hoping its just the stress!! =/ but honestly i realy dont think you are pregnant at all maybe a 1% chance like seriously so please dont freak out too much!

Answer 10

It is possible but extremely unlikely. Don't fret until you have to. If your period isn't until the 18th than just breathe and stay calm until then. Don't worry and just learn from this. Just be a lot more careful next time. Always use protection and if you're worried about something like that then say something and stand up for yourself. relax and don't stress yourself.