HELP!!! Adults only please?

Question

I have been semi dating this guy for 5 years, we have two kids together. Our sex life is okay but it is not what it use to be. Men and Women I would like for you to give me some tips to blow his mind. We are not sexual repressed so I want to hear it all. Men tell me what you love your lady to do to you. Women tell me what you are doing to knock your mans socks off.

I am way over 21 and this is a serious question.

And no Michael P I'm not even close to being ugly.

Answer 1

You could go online, the two of you, into a chat room, and then tell pick someone, and have them tell you what to do, and whatever they say, you two HAVE to do it.

Take off all your clothes, tie your hands to the corner of the bed, but lay a bunch of toys next to you; brushes, feathers, a vibrating massager, a blindfold, oil, and then call him like you need urgent help - don't scream, but like something's about to fall that you're holding up but can't put back on the shelf, and when he comes into the room you say something like "I wanted to tie you up, but I wanted to make sure the ropes wouldn't hurt you, [tug tug], but now I can't get the knot out!" or "Oh my God - my clothes fell off!"

On the weekend when he doesn't have to go to work, sneak into the bathroom when he's showering, and steal all the towels, and anything else he could use to cover up. And if you want, douse him with a cup of ice-cold water.

I always wanted a girl to ask me, beg me, to spank her.

Tickle fights are sometimes good to get closer before the main event.

Get a few books; ESO: Extended Sexual Orgasm - is a good one. (Look up the male G-spot. I never had the courage to ask someone to do it for me though).

Ask him, (don't "let" him), but ask him to give it to you in the behind, tell him you want to try it. (Women have told me that it "scratches itches I didn't know I had... rubs places I can't touch... massages my p*ssy from another angle". My ex-fiancee asked me, because she wanted to try it, and it felt awesome. I never asked HER because I was afraid it would seem disrespectful or make her mad.

Shave yourself clean down there, or wax, and don't tell him - just let him wait to discover it.

And take time when you make love, lick his nipples for half an hour - and do it very very slowly.

Lube your hands up until they're very slippery, wrap your fist around his shaft, and the apply the palm of your hand to his tip and rub is slow and hard - it will produce a sensation that will drive him through the roof. He may actually stop you, but he's loving it. (I myself have to be tied down because I can't hold still and I'm afraid I may knee the girl to death).

Put his penis between your breasts, and use them to stimulate him.

Go doggy style.

Take turns - one of you gives pleasure, and the other receives all the attention, then you rest, and switch up.

My ex did this once: she made me stand in the middle of the room, dropped my pants to my ankles, and blew me. I didn't think it was anything special, until she said I wasn't allowed to touch her. And as the orgasm came I realized the game she was playing - my legs were going to buckle, but there was nothing to hold on to, and if I did not remain standing she threatened to stop, and she kept nudging the back of my knees so I couldn't lock them.

You could have a nipple licking contest: You get into position 69-A; just like a 69, but you face each others' chest instead of genitals, and you lick each others' nipples until you're both so horny you can't stand it, and then make love.

If you use condoms, try lamb skin - it doesn't protect against diseases, just pregnancy - but BOY DOES IT FEEEEL GOOD! (And add some spermicide, at least inside the condom if it doesn't have any).

For some men, (especially those who have women that take long), lasting long can be work. It's nice for a woman to say, "Do whatever you want to me. Don't worry about me cumming, I want to just work on you right now." If you're smart, you'll pull on your nipples or something to get yourself hot before you both start.

Put his penis in your mouth and hum. Have his open your labia, put his vocal cords against your clitoris, and hum, (beware of stubble).

Once my ex took me to a state park with few people around, tied my hands to a branch of a tree, and pulled my pants down. Then she blindfolded me, broke off a three foot switch, caned me until I was rock hard, (blood flow to the area made it happen), then released me so I could F her. Five minutes later after we were done, people showed up.

Have him put a vibrator in you, then put on tight jeans to hold it in, and walk around the mall for an hour having random orgasms.

This works both ways: Oral, when the one you're doing it to is finished, continue like they haven't, make them *** again, and again, and again.

Write me privately if you need more.

Answer 2

Pick a day where you can time alone with no kids....Rather you pack him a lunch or he carries a brief case. Leave him an envelope marked (Read only in private)! Get creative and say something like, I think about you all day! I'm so horny for you baby. I've made plans for the kids to stay out tonight. You know what that means? We have the house alone tonight. I've got something special planned so don't be late... Have a romantic dinner by candle light, and retire to the other room where you have very sexy music playing. Loosen up his shirt and tell him to relax and watch you. Slowly take off your clothes, for every item you remove take something off from him. Don't forget the sound affects. You know what i mean? Just go wild with each other.This will sure add spice to your life!

Answer 3

Here's something my husband and I did to improve things a whole lot..
Tell him to write down some things he'd like you to do, some situations or even role playing.
For us it was things he'd like...
And then once a week it was treat night(we had sex more than that, just treat night was once a week).
We'd have a nice quiet dinner, usually Friday or Saturday night when we could send the kid off to a relatives or friends...
Get a fire going in the fire place, have a few glasses of wine, and then we take out the "Treat Book". and we'd go through it each week by number...
It gives you both something to look forward to, and you can rotate between his treat book and yours (you get to make a list too!)
But seriously, send the kids to Granny's or a friends and make it all about you two for the whole night!
Hope this helps! Good Luck!!

Answer 4

Having sex with the same person just gets boring after a while. That's the sad fact. You can spice it up a little... but I think your true focus should be realizing that sex is never going to be like it use to be, and how to make the best of that. You should focus on enchancing the other parts of your relationship...

But... just try having sex in a crazy location... like something somewhat public. And make it spontaneous. Don't tell him you are going to do it. Suprise him when he least expects it!

Answer 5

"I have been semi dating this guy for 5 years, we have two kids together." LOL - Ah, God, that brought tears to my eyes.

Sweetheart, you are not "semi-dating", you are married without the legal benefits, and the ability to leave whenever you feel like it.

So, married, 5 years, sex is off. Acting sexy, interested is always a turn on. Unless you are hideous, at which point you should get Mariah Carey to act all sexy for him.

Answer 6

darlin ,
when you man come home
you need to turn him on
you need to press the button n press play
you know what i mean he's stressed
tired or whateva he needs to chill n relax
you need to strip or somethin put cream on your breathes
so he can taste some flavour you need strawberries on them breaths n if you really wanna take his socks off you need to start lickin him from his head to his toes plus you need to get the bath ready the bed ready the music playin the food made after you hit the show some liqour before you rump thats what it should be like the kids cant be there in the house it has to be private n spiritual you know how your man is give him what he likes i'm hope he'll appreiciate the women he loves know what i mean show em that your real !!!

Answer 7

Honestly, have you tried anything in a Kama sutra book? At least try all of it once. Also- there are products that can enhance things for him and you. Go to the link below. Try toys, lingerie, anything! Role playing could work as well. It all depends on what he likes.

Answer 8

Try this:
Start by kissing his lips, neck, and move down to his shoulders. Go back to where you started, and do it again, and go to his stomach. Then go back up, start all over again, each time going a little further each time. Once you finally get to his pants, lift them back, and slide your tounge where his pants rest. Start all over again. Finally get his pants unbuttoned, and kiss him on the top of his thigh. Then look at him and say "All done" with a smile on your face. He'll want you to continue so bad it's unbelieveable. Haha

Hope it works. Good luck =]

Answer 9

Buy him tickets to the ball game. When he gets home, knock his socks off with sweet love!

Answer 10

While doing normal things...ie....watching TV, taking a shower, cooking dinner, etc...just stop what you are doing and push him down and take advantage of what is yours. Make sure it is a time he would least expect it. Also, you can try whispering a promising comment in his ear about what you want to do to him or what he wants to do to you when you or he gets home later. Good luck!

Answer 11

There is no way that it could be limited to adults only. Young teenagers are far to savvy and can find their way in anywhere.