He only brushes his teeth at night, not in the morning. It's very disgusting because he breaths straight in my face and after he eats there is always stuff stuck in his teeth and he never picks it out. When it's hot sometimes he will really smell like BO. He works in a shop all day so he is greasy when he gets home. Then he thinks it's ok to put his arms all over me and want to have sex. It grosses me out and I make up something not to have sex. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but it's gross.
2007-05-01 08:02:37 · 10 answers · asked by padros 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should just tell him that his hygiene habits are freaking nasty. if i were u i'd def put a stop to it. i dont know how u can handle that..especially the part about him brushing his teeth only at night...has he always been like this? u should tell him to either change his nasty ways or u are outta there to find someone clean...also buy him some body spray, toothbrush,toothpaste and heavy duty deoderant. i just really hope he changes his dirty ways for u...i have a MAJOR issue with teeth..so when i read that he only brushes his teeth at night and has food caked in them i about gagged! u are way more tolerant than me for sure! good luck girl! =)
2007-05-01 08:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by stardust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... Maybe he wants you to love him for the way he is? There is someone for everyone in this world. Picture a couple that are fit and healthy, they go jogging every morning together, and come home for a glass of oj and a low carb bar before they go to work. They meet at the gym after work and do yoga. They're happy together... Take the guy out of the picture and put your boyfriend in. These two people no longer fit together. Go down to alabama in a trailer park and meet Mr. and Mrs. Jones (Both named Jones BEFORE marriage... *wink*) Both on welfare, both working under the table for extra cash. Both shower once a week wether they need it or not. And on Friday nights they have friends over and drink moonshine and go night cat fishing by campfire light. They're happy together because they fit each others' style.
All that to say, maybe a smelly grease monkey isn't the right man for you?
(I know I know... That was an awfully long story, but I felt like typing)
2007-05-01 08:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shawna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the store, pick up whatever's the last toothpaste you saw a commercial about OR, wait, maybe one of those whitening ones? Get 2 tubes. And tell him - Hey, baby, I saw this commercial and thought we could try it together. And then see who can get the whitest teeth? Sounds silly, I know, but then you're not being offensive, you're turning it into a contest.
For the B.O., try picking up some guy shower stuff - Hey, I was at the store, and after I saw the tooth stuff, I was looking at shower stuff (tell him you found a new one for you that you think he'll loooove) and then I smelled this stuff, and I got it for you cuz it smells soooo good (wink, wink).
Again, you're not being offensive, turning it into a competition and a gift, and he'll think he's going to get some cuz you think the shower stuff smells sexy as hell :)
I've done the shower one before, but not the toothpaste, but good luck:)
2007-05-01 08:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_53105 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This is a tough one. The best way is just to communicate. Tell him that you love it when he gets cleaned up for you. Buy him your favorite deoderant, cologne, and some breath mints. Before sex, maybe shower together if you don't feel comfortable telling him just to clean up himself. Make comments about how great he smells, and how you just love it when he does were the deoderant and cologne. Sounds like a tough situation, but I am sure this will at least help.
2007-05-01 08:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time he asks why you wont have sex say because youre kind of sweaty, and its gross. and for the brushing the teeth thing, that gross. tell him about it. dont be rude, just say it if he breathing in your face or something. or drop hints. like if hes going in for a kiss, dodge it by putting a mint in his mouth but smiling and laughing or something. hell will probably think youre being "cute"
2007-05-01 08:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...uhm i dont know what to say.
wow that is really gross.
uhm maybe you should say "i just ate im gonna go brush my teeth will you go with me."
or maybe when he gets home from work you should say "hey lets take a shower together" if he has something in his teeth then just nicely say "hun you have a lil sumthin right here"
it shouldnt be too rude and if he truly loves you then he will not get mad. so thats about all the advice that i have.
love bri
2007-05-01 08:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
' Honey, I love to kiss you and hold you, but I have a very sensitive sense of smell [ and get grossed out very easily] - would you please shower[ add shampoo, use deodoran, clean clothes, whatever] and brush your teeth before you pick me up?'
It is well known that women have a much more sensitive sense of smell - I have had to tell several of my nieces/nephews/sons it was time for daily showers and deodorant.
2007-05-01 08:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy!!! Tell him what's up in a nice way and in private.
2007-05-01 08:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by sxyitlngrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...tell him he needs to brush his teeth and shower...or get a new b/f?
2007-05-01 08:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by whitenblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me ask you this-
why are you sticking aroung to smell him every day?
2007-05-01 08:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Namom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋