we have been together for 2 weeks and i am only 16 and i have had sex only one time and i want to do it again because i really love him so do you think i should do it
2007-05-01 08:01:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should wait it out a little bit longer. my first time was when i was 16 with a guy that i had only been dating for about a month. everything was all good and we lasted for about 3 years but it should've ended alot sooner. the bad thing was that i was confusing the love and sex thing which made it hard to leave and that ended up only hurting me in the end. you're still young! give it some time and make sure its what you really want to do.
2007-05-01 08:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by ~chrissy~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a guy, I would say that if you give it to him early, he wont want it anymore. Now granted, if you tell him this advice he will deny it, but its true. Guys want what they cant have. Wait for a few months. Besides, if you have to question whether you should or not, you probably shouldnt. It just makes logical sense. Something like sex should come very easily. If you are at least somewhat unsure, why take the chance of losing him. The more you make him wait, the more he will desire it. There is more to do than sex. A two week relationship is still in the "honeymoon stage" and you are thinking that he is "the one". But give it time. Im sure you will do the right thing.
2007-05-01 15:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by Knick101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would leave it a little while, i'm 16 and i've been with my girlfriend for 1 month and 1 week and we only started having sex a couple of days ago because we both felt comfortable around each other and feel like we belong together, if you are going to have sex then make sure you 2 are comfortable with it first, only have sex if the time feels right and use protection, good luck :)
2007-05-01 15:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooooo. two weeks is not a long enough time to be dating to be having sex when you're so young. you hardly know the person after two weeks. give it a few months when you know each other better and know what you're comfortable with. a lot of things could change in just a month.
2007-05-01 15:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by burgerbabe84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaahhh, I think that you should wait a little longer. 2 weeks is a really short time to know someone and it would be best to make sure that he feels the same way.
And use protection no matter what, and if it's against your beliefs then you shouldn't be having sex this young.
2007-05-01 15:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by asguard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think since you are so young you should wait at least a few months. That way you can be sure he's with you for you and not for whats between your legs. Also, if you choose to go ahead and sleep with him now, please use protection. At your age a child is the last thing you need. Best of luck~
2007-05-01 15:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I wouldn't have sex 'because you love him'.
You two may break up in a month.
If you want to have sex because you WANT TO HAVE SEX, and won't regret it if you break up, go for it.
If your wanting sex is contingent on being so in love, then I'd hold off a bit.
2007-05-01 15:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl You Crazy Dnt Do It
2007-05-01 15:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jacquea Gekeye Devel Bona Hogan1 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it totally up to you but in my opinion, i think you should wait at least two months. and if you decide to do it, use protection you dont want to get pregnant you are so young.
2007-05-01 15:10:32 · answer #9 · answered by berryflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give it up after 2 weeks cuz he will think ur a lil whore or something....sex isnt everything
2007-05-01 15:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by sweetchick21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋