I know of a man living nearby, and he is used to prostitutes. Either he brings them home or go to vice dens. Though he seems very logical and sensible in his way of talking, his this behaviour makes me feel sick. He is also normal looking.
He says life is for 'enjoying'. I feel this thinking stinks, right?
I tried ignoring him, but he keeps on trying to interact with me.
What do I do to keep him away?
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2007-05-01 07:43:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Tell him you're not interested! He needs to get the picture!
2007-05-01 07:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What business is it of your if he chooses to have sex with
prostitutes it is after all his money and they have obviously taken his money in return for their services.
What does his looks have to do with anything.
That is just being discriminatory and reflects more on you small mindedness than it do about him or his qualities.
You say "He is also normal looking."
What is normal anyway. ( more discrimination )
He says life is for 'enjoying'. I feel this thinking stinks, right?
Well I have to agree with him, life is for enjoying.
Unless you are a person in the grip of a major depressive episode only then would his positive outlook on life appear to stink.
Ignoring him is no good you have to open your mouth and tell him not to speak to you as you don't like him or his lifestyle.
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2007-05-01 12:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Big R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because someone likes prostitutes, they would rather pay women for that instead of be in a relationship, doesnt necessarily flag them as "sick" to me. Maybe a little abnormal, but you should not be so hard on him. Is he leering at you? Does he make inappropriate comments to you? Has he asked you out? If not, and he just your neighbor and he just says hello, say hello back and goon about your business. If he tries to chat it up with you and you aren't really interested, then just make up something, say you have to go do something or be somewhere. Dont be rude to him.
2007-05-01 08:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Mollyruby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
www.RegisteredOffendersList.org You may want to check to see if he has a criminal record. . He may think that he has to work harder to get your attention. He most likely sees his lifestyle as a drinking problem or a gambling problem (and not gambling with STD) Keep your answers brief but do not ignore him. Tell him that you have nothing in common but keep conversations to one sentence or less (Bye, forever!). If he keeps it up you may tell him that you are viewing his actions as harassment. If he persists, go to the police and start keeping a log of his encounters with you. Some stalkers are just in it to make you feel powerless so the best way to avoid that is to not put yourself in a position to let the situation get worse by allowing him to make you feel uncomfortable.
2007-05-01 08:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by PEPPER_ON_A_STICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to invite him in for pie, but avoiding him is not the answer either since he does live close by you. If you live within the bounds of a Church Faith, then you need to show him the error of his ways by letting him associate with you to see the right path, as Jesus did with prostitutes and thieves, and as you are asked to do in the bible.
Life is for enjoying, but the majority manage to do that without paying for s*x!
2007-05-01 08:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by Behhar B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't see why you should have any problem interacting with him as long as the topic isn't a sexual one.
Everyone has at least one vice. Some just cover it up better than others.
I would say treat him cordially like you would any other person. If the topic of sex comes up, just tell him that you are uncomfortable discussing that topic and leave it at that.
2007-05-01 07:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
In the Bible, these are called 'whoremongers'-draw your own conclusions, and do what you need to.
Knowing this, that the law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and for sinners, for unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers,
For whoremongers, for them that defile themselves with mankind, for menstealers, for liars, for perjured persons, and if there be any other thing that is contrary to sound doctrine;
This is not the only place they are mentioned either, by any means.
2007-05-01 07:54:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
A man using a prostitute is not "sick". However, if you'd rather not talk to him, tell him you'd rather not be friends and ignore him.
You will be the rude one, not him. He's not asking you to have sex with him, he's trying to be a good neighbor. YOU are intolerable of his choices which means you judge him. Don't.
2007-05-01 07:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by Marvinator 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I think you should be honest with him, let him know that you know about his habits and that you look down on that industry and those who support it. We could always pray for him and hope he can see the light one day.
Good Luck and be careful
2007-05-01 07:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by azdrummaker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb. This guy could have some diseases. And if he still persists,then kick him in the nads.
2007-05-01 09:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋