Okay, I am not kinky, just so you know, but say I have a certian thing that really turns me on more than my boyfriend. Do you think that maybe trying to imagine him in/doing that certian thing that is a major turn on will help with me coming faster? It's just weird because yeah, he turns me on. But the other thing (that I won't tell him. i won't tell anyone) is MORE of a turn on, and when we are just "playing" around, you know, he gets a hardon VERY easily and quickly, and i don't. It kinda bothers me, I mean cause the last time we were "playing" it took a awkwardly long amount of time for me to you know...and I just hope that nothing is really wrong with me and maybe there is something I could do??
~Pat
thank you all. really. No joke, I am so thankful that you people help.
2007-05-01 06:36:34 · 6 answers · asked by Patrick. 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Okay, justwondering, I did, and like I said in a different qstn. I'm not on anything yet. I'm just really worried as to what is going on...
2007-05-01 06:43:59 · update #1
tell him and find out.
2007-05-01 06:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by terd2125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a fetish. That means there is something that you focus on that gets you aroused and you have a hard time getting...well...hard, without it. There's nothing wrong with that but there IS something wrong with all the anxiety and shame you're apparently feeling around this thing. Maybe you are afraid your boyfriend won't understand or will think it's weird, but if it's going to help your sex life, why not try mentioning it? Otherwise yeah, you'll have to keep imagining it. And if that helps, then why not?
2007-05-04 02:18:40 · answer #2 · answered by Rainbocarnage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men get turned on faster then women do.
If it takes a long time for you, try other ways.
I want to know what your turn on is? :-)
2007-05-01 13:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered you about this in another question. Did you look up your depression medication?
2007-05-01 13:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard to answer when we're not being gave enough detail, sorry.
2007-05-01 13:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not clear on why this question is in mental health???
2007-05-01 13:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋