Should I break up with my girlfriend?

Question

In my opinion my girlfriend and I have a wonderful relationship and based on her actions she feels the same way too. The problem is that she tells me that something is missing but she can't say what it is. On the other hand she says that I am perfect and that she couldn't ask for anything more. She has been hurt in the past and tells me that she is hesitant for fear of getting hurt again. Someone told me that she may just be messing with me. That made me re think the whole thing. I'm confused now and don't know what I should do. I want to be with her but this makes me wonder. What should I do? Any serious advice is appreciated

Answer 1

The advice is don't listen to other people with their half *** advice. You are with her, you know her, it's what you think not somebody else's lame info.

Answer 2

Well, you both seem to be perfect as you said in which case there is no need to break up. Dont take others advice about breaking up because you will only get to regret it after breaking up.

The best thing to do is to get some counseling from you best friends who know your affair and whom you trust.

Also, you both can discuss it alone and try to figure it out.

Sometimes others advice on breaking up may seem the solution for you but never ever take such a decision.

Best Of Luck

Imtiyaz

Answer 3

She may feel you are always there, consistant, always loving in that case she may be immature and used to men giving her problems. So she may not know how to handle a good healthy loving man. So my advice to you is do not make it obvious but stop talking about it totally and find yourself alittle more independent, go out with your friends more, Or pretend you are that will give her time to think and feel if the love she feels for you is enough. Distance is needed now.

Answer 4

hello

My boyfriend and i are going through the same thing, i have had some bad past boyfriends, i don't want to take the risk of really committing with this one as i don 't feel like i can trust him yet.
so i am very distant from him.
this is not you as if it was then she would be saying she is not happy, i don't think she is messing you about just scared about how the relationship could end up.
lots of people go through this but there is nothing to worry about as we don't put you through pain just for fun.
just hang in on there as it could be a great thing in the long run.
hope everything works out
samie.

Answer 5

If something is missing then you are not the guy for her and it's not like you are going to be able to go out and get a new hair cut to fix it. You definitely meet her expectations of what she expects a relationship to be like but she is probably just holding on to you until some better alternatives come her way if they haven't already. Sorry Bro.

Answer 6

Why are you asking this question. You know what to do. Follow your heart and stay with your girlfriend. You guys need some counseling. Remember communication is usually the key to good relationship

Answer 7

I think you shouldn't break up with her. Just keep insisting in the "problem" and ask her whats wrong.
Or take the lazy way and ask her best friend.

Answer 8

Well you just said you want to be with her so be with her. Maybe talk to her about the issue yourself instead of letting what you hear from other people control your life.

Answer 9

Find some time to sit down and talk. Anyway you are perfect, so i think it is not your problems.

Answer 10

i tell you please dont break up in any way, both of u hv sum counselling and try to solve the matter , if nothing works up , pls wait for sumtime , never listen to what others hv to say abt ur relation