THEY ARE TEEN AGERS,THEY STEEL FROM ME,SWEAR, I CAN NOT MIX MY OWN TEENAGERS WITH THEM,I HAVE TO KEEP EVERYTHING SEPERATE,MY CHILDREN LIVE WITH THEIR DAD,HIS LIVE WITH THEIR MOTHER.
2007-05-01 00:58:45 · 4 answers · asked by patti p 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Leave the kids at their mothers and go on happily like they don't exist. Leave your kids with their dad and go on happily like they don't exist. Life is too short to waste it on a bunch of ingrates.
2007-05-01 01:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, the first thing to know is that blended family situations are awfully difficult, especially if the children involved are much older than the ages of five or seven. Let your boyfriend know that his children will behave respectfully toward you. And if he doesn't have any backbone, it may be time to reconsider the relationship.
2007-05-01 08:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by Theodore H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem, and it was really terrible...the kids thought that by breaking us up, maybe their parents would get back together...they just didn't know. I always understood this, but they were vicious. After they did indeed break us up, they both apologized later, and realized that I was actually very good for their father...but it was best for me in the long run..You can try to 'deal' with them, but I forsee nothing but problems in the future..they're just at that age.
2007-05-01 10:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So complicated, might as well break off with your boyfriend because he and his children are inseparable after all! Well, consider, I bet he would want his children more than he wants you, should any problem arises, because they're his flesh and blood! It's better to get on your life without your boyfriend and his children!
2007-05-01 08:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by DeleraTwinkie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋