2007-05-01 00:54:38 · 15 answers · asked by anglique_watts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You try T A L K I N G. Its a rather new concept for some people but any relationship worth its salt will tell you they survived through talking. No one is a mind reader, and without open and honest discussion, no issue will ever be completely resolved. Tell your partner you would like to spice things up, try something new etc. Reassure them you love them and ask for thier help with this problem and work through it together. It may take a while and some one may be offended in the mean time, but surely that is better than cheating and creating a whole new set of problems. An unsatisfactory sex life is no excuse to cheat - ever. That is playing with someone mind and heart and life and is inexcusable. If you really love your partner, then tell them and work through it like mature adults.
2007-05-01 01:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is called a conundrum. Or between a rock and a complicated position. Take your %.. The spouse who's unhappy can experience cheated, can ask your self what's incorrect with them, or may even ask your self if the spouse has yet another lover. Whichever that is, techniques of being unfaithful or getting a divorce are organic. yet i ask your self if both will remedy the problem extremely of complicating it. in case you will get your spouse to pay interest, tell them the way you experience, what you're taking under consideration doing, and communicate possibilities. in the adventure that they don't respond to that, then discover concepts that you'll get delight with your spouse you grant for youself. there are concepts even once you're at the same time to attempt this. study a e book which include the classic "the exhilaration of sex" through Alex convenience for some concepts. There are a bunch of others.
2016-11-23 19:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner is not satisfying you, it is less of his fault and more of yours. You should know your body well enough to tell him what you like. It is your body, tell him what you need and desire to be satisfied, most men don't mind being told. That is how we all learn by someone of the opposite sex telling us what works for them. There should be no shame or embarrassment in this, for goodness sakes you are giving of the most intimate part of yourself if you are unwilling or unable to discuss what is pleasing to you, you may have a problem. God bless****
2007-05-01 01:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk about the issue together. Both people have needs and you may need to help your partner help you meet your needs. There is always a way but both partners must be in agreement about this. Good luck
2007-05-01 01:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by Pure Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, why doesnt he satify you. Does he not last long enough? Not enough foreplay? Ever try sexyoys? Sometimes you just have to tell them how to do it. Do you masturbate? Sometimes guys have absolutely no clue what they are doing. Make it a point that he stops, and only works on you, then he can get his. Guys are easy. Tell him what you want him to do to you. This could be a real turn on to him. If he is not willing, then I say he is not the right guy. then he is just a selfish lover. Be creative and make it fun for both of you. dont let him in( if you know what I mean)UNTIL you are ready. ask him to make you beg for it. I have my husband to work on me until Im begging then he still will keep teasing me until I can hardly stand it. Then all of a sudden......BAM.......HE GIVES IT TO ME AND THATS ALL IT TAKES...... IMMEDIATE RELEASE.... TOES CURLING AND EVERYTHING ELSE. YOU JUST NEED TO TELL HIM. DO NOT CRITISIZE....BE FLIRTY AND SEXY, BUT ADAMANT ABOUT GETTING YOURS FIRST. WOW, I NEED TO GO SEE MY HUSBAND NOW!!!!!!
p.s. do a few teasing things back to him....gotta keep him going also. nibble his nipples, his neck, his inner thighs and else where. BUT JUST NIBBLE.... u gotta tease.
2007-05-01 01:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by teena662002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I suggest toys???? Have you ever thought about things like that? tell him you want to "experiment." Guys tend to like that kind of thing anyways. Suggest more 4 play or something and then work on it that way. The most intense sex comes from both partners enjoying every moment of the sexual experience! So like I said try some toys. I can tell you there is this "clit cream" called ABC .. and boy does it work!!! Put that on and as long as he is movin .. you will get your satisfaction. :) hope it works out for you..
2007-05-01 01:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Curious ME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would sit down with your partner and have a heart to heart. Tell them what you would like and wat satifies you and have him do the same so he doesnt feel as embarrised. Maybe even try new things i.e toys role playing something maybe to get him more into it.
2007-05-01 01:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by Ron 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let them know. if they dont like the answer that you give them, then suggest counseling or something for them. tell him/her that its not your fault that they cant perform certain things as well as others. good luck.
2007-05-01 00:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by jenrulz13 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOLVE THE PROBLEM BY TALKING IT OVER. IT CAN B SOLVED. MUTUAL ARRANGEMENTS CAN B MADE. IF HE DOES'NT AGREE LOOK ELSEWHERE. IT'S A SHORT LIFE. DECISION HAS TO B URS EITHERWAY.
2007-05-01 01:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep loving him and don't cheat on him
2007-05-01 00:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋