my girland i had a fight and it was over sumthing really silly.she told me to get out and i did and now she wont text me nor will she answer my texts or calls.my plan is to give her space.. i think she is getting out of love of me.but.. her kids missed me and they ask when am i moving back in. the fight involved her 4 yr old daughter.. now her daughter feels guilty that she started the fight.i asked to talked her kids and no reply.. sooo my plan is to give her space.. if she hasnt talked to me in about a week.. then it is over .. closure then.i do adore her and i love her very much... i hope she still lloves me... i dont know if she still does. any advice i should do? thank you
2007-04-30 19:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by country4skot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but does a relationship needs communication?... we r not talking..... but i have to give her space in order to show her that i respect her.. how can we talk? when she doesnt want to
2007-04-30 19:55:32 · update #1
with me out of the house.. she has to do everything.. trash, up earlier than their normal,laundry and set out clothes for them.... is this time she needs to reevalute her life duties?.. right?
2007-04-30 19:57:36 · update #2
victoria... if i text her daily or every other day.. she will still feel smothered or pressured to answered my text..how can i do this?
2007-04-30 20:01:20 · update #3
do u think that she thinks of me? or misses me at all?
2007-04-30 20:04:05 · update #4
done that .. left text... no reply
2007-04-30 20:10:03 · update #5
in her mind.. is it over?
2007-04-30 23:41:13 · update #6
when kids are involved, even if they aren't your own blood it is hard. she should talk to her child and let her know that it had nothing to do with her. give her the space she needs to clear her mind and see what she wants, there is only so much you could do. you could do a surprise thing for her to show her how much you love her, but if you do it before she is ready..it could really go over bad. so just give her the space she needs but dont ignore her completly, a phone call or 1 text a day or every other day to let her know you are thinking about her, but not forcing her, get it? just give it sometime.. and if you think she is falling out of love with you, if things get okay again (which i hope they do) just be that romantic sweet funny guy she fell in love with. because most guys after they get comfortable in a relationship feel they dont have to "impress" the women anymore, so just be that same man agian. good luck!
2007-04-30 19:57:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if what you say is true--it was a fight that shouldn't have happened--with a 4 year old??? God, get a grip. You don't fight with kids--you relate and talk like an adult to them. ..not fight. That is what she is mad about--you are not parent material--and her kids come first. Find another girl without kids, have fun. Good luck
2007-05-01 03:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 year old's dont feel guilt. They are little people who shouldn't be involved in fights but usually are when one of the GROWN UPS isn't their natural parent. I would be waiting to hear from your gf. If it dont come soon consider it over and she just doesn't want to tell you that. Dont play the kids card. She is their mother.
2007-05-01 02:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still hurting now. Give her some more time then try talking to her again. Be sincere.
2007-05-01 02:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have her space. She needs to make the decision for herself. You can't force anything upon her. She has to make the decision. and you can't make it for her. You're doing the right thing.
2007-05-01 02:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and say sorry.
2007-05-01 03:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Justin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋