Nobody.. not friends or family. What do you think my problem is and what should I do about it?
2007-04-30 19:45:52 · 12 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sounds like you have been betrayed in the past don't worry just ease into my python biceps and protruding chest and you will feel secure
2007-05-01 04:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by greeneyedflavor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand how you feel and have been there myself. Slowly over time you will be able to test the waters and try to trust people again to varying degrees. You'll be wiser next time and not show so much of your vulnerability. You've felt betrayed by friends and family. And, it may be a long time before you trust someone (if ever) 100%, but that's ok. Baby steps. Just be friendly to people and they'll open up to you, when you feel safe, you'll be able to confide in some people. It's a very lucky person who has a couple really true friends out there.
2007-05-01 03:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You were most probably were hurt very much by someone who you trusted one time. Now you are afraid to trust anyone.
What you should do is try and start trusting again, but proceed with caution.
I know it is a horrible feeling.
2007-04-30 20:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont be afraid of losing or falling. Theres nothing to be ashamed of, and untill any of those things happen to u, ull never learn to stand up. When u risk yer feelings with ppl, many bad things can happen, but also, many wonderful things may occur. Ull never know until u try. Just be a little more slective than the usual ;).
2007-04-30 19:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by aeritht 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have been hurt really bad or being scared of being hurt. it's preventing you from living your life. Start trusting people, but be careful. Don't 100% turn people away because you don't trust them. Work at it..trust them.. first 10%, then 20% then 30%... little things at first... They'll prove themselves eventually. whether they turn out to be good people or bad people..
2007-04-30 20:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't really trust anyone. People might act in an honorable fashion towards you, but, their motivation may just be that they want to look good themself, a benefit for themself. Hate to tell you, it's a dog eat dog world and the only one with your interests in mind is you.
2007-04-30 20:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by chevyinthedark2 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your family and friends must of hurt your feelings. I am sorry, and I truly understand how you feel. I think it is best for you to spend time for yourself, and then think of ways of letting the people who hurt you know how you felt.
Spend this week for yourself. On Friday, compose a letter to give to the people who hurt you. Be kind, but direct and let them know how this affected you. Whether take my advice to spend time for yourself or not, at least make sure you somehow inform the people of your feelings.
God Bless
2007-04-30 19:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by tony 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am with you on this. I have been burned one too many times, and I am so sick of it. So the way I figure it, if I don't give anyone that trust they cant hurt me again. If it is bothering you perhaps you should see a counselor. Me, I am fine with it.
2007-04-30 22:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by j_elam22 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't either but it's not to the point where I'm isolated or crazy. It's just a defense mechanism there is nothing wrong with you. I think you are just very wise!
2007-04-30 23:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mo 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
trust yourself first. someone hurt you one two many times but don't let anyone cheat you out of happiness now. if you do they win.its time to let go.little steps at a time.good luck.
2007-04-30 20:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋